Comments on: can my mom force me to put my baby up for adoption? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/ Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:18:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Nikole http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6945 Nikole Tue, 16 Mar 2010 01:50:38 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6945 nobody can make you do anything with your child that you dont want to<a href="http://www.cargearusa.com/srch/srch.php?q=suzuki"> Nikole</a> nobody can make you do anything with your child that you dont want to Nikole

]]> By: MARY R. http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6944 MARY R. Mon, 15 Mar 2010 00:57:42 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6944 When do you turn 18? No, no one can force you to that I know of. Is there a counselor at school you can talk to? I recommend that.<a href="http://www.greatjewelrydesign.com/other-315"> MARY R.</a> When do you turn 18?
No, no one can force you to that I know of.
Is there a counselor at school you can talk to? I recommend that. MARY R.

]]> By: Ashley http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6943 Ashley Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:59:35 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6943 your parents cant do anything. i got prego at 17 also. i have my son now and he is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. It is a hard road though, i have just been through a custody battle and it was nasty and i am 8months preggo too. but pray baotu it get some consoling<a href="http://www.currencyexchangemarket.com/yahoo-currency-exchange.htm"> Ashley</a> your parents cant do anything. i got prego at 17 also. i have my son now and he is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. It is a hard road though, i have just been through a custody battle and it was nasty and i am 8months preggo too. but pray baotu it get some consoling Ashley

]]> By: 7rin http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6942 7rin Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:38:39 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6942 Absolutely not, though she can try to make life very difficult for you, by threatening to throw you out and things like that. I was pregnant at 17, and trust me, it's neither a crisis, nor too young. You *can* keep your kid, and don't let anyone tell you different. My daughter's now 19, and is studying art at college. Don't let anyone take your baby from you. You might find some of the links listed at useful. Good luck!<a href="http://www.secretfinance.com/offshore/offshore-mauritius.htm"> 7rin</a> Absolutely not, though she can try to make life very difficult for you, by threatening to throw you out and things like that.

I was pregnant at 17, and trust me, it’s neither a crisis, nor too young. You *can* keep your kid, and don’t let anyone tell you different. My daughter’s now 19, and is studying art at college. Don’t let anyone take your baby from you.

You might find some of the links listed at useful.

Good luck! 7rin

]]> By: Saggyrl http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6941 Saggyrl Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:09:08 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6941 Ugh, parents who force their kids to give their babies up make me sick! I got pregnant at 17 and my parents were PISSED, but they said they would support me whatever I decided. In the end I chose an abortion, but it was totally MY decision and I will always feel garteful to my parents for letting ME make the decision. NO, NO NO your mom can't make you give your baby up! She can try to bully you into doing it, but please do NOT do it! Like someone else said, can you stay with your boyfriend's family? If one of my sons got a girl pregnant and her family kicked her out I would have her stay with us in a heartbeat. I would never want to lose my own grandchild to strangers, never!!! If your bf's family won't take you in, do you have any other relatives who would help? There are always ways, stay strong sweetie!!!! You never know, your mom may have said that to scare you but almost all change their tune once the baby is born.<a href="http://www.businessbrokersguide.com/business-broker-training.htm"> Saggyrl</a> Ugh, parents who force their kids to give their babies up make me sick! I got pregnant at 17 and my parents were PISSED, but they said they would support me whatever I decided. In the end I chose an abortion, but it was totally MY decision and I will always feel garteful to my parents for letting ME make the decision.

NO, NO NO your mom can’t make you give your baby up! She can try to bully you into doing it, but please do NOT do it! Like someone else said, can you stay with your boyfriend’s family? If one of my sons got a girl pregnant and her family kicked her out I would have her stay with us in a heartbeat. I would never want to lose my own grandchild to strangers, never!!!

If your bf’s family won’t take you in, do you have any other relatives who would help? There are always ways, stay strong sweetie!!!! You never know, your mom may have said that to scare you but almost all change their tune once the baby is born. Saggyrl

]]> By: snowwillow20 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6940 snowwillow20 Sat, 06 Mar 2010 13:29:19 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6940 She can't force you. You are the babies mother and you make the decisions. Your mother might make it difficult for you to live with her as she persuades you to give your baby up. You need to be armed with reading material to show her how detrimental adoption is on the child and the mother. It is a painful thing to live through and something you never get over. Ask your Mom how she would feel if she had been brow beaten into giving you up for adoption.<a href="http://www.myislandholiday.com/greek-holiday-island.htm"> snowwillow20</a> She can’t force you. You are the babies mother and you make the decisions. Your mother might make it difficult for you to live with her as she persuades you to give your baby up.
You need to be armed with reading material to show her how detrimental adoption is on the child and the mother. It is a painful thing to live through and something you never get over. Ask your Mom how she would feel if she had been brow beaten into giving you up for adoption. snowwillow20

]]> By: Angela http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6939 Angela Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:55:48 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6939 No, you are the only one that has a say in what happens to your child. DO NOT SIGN any paper work without reading it first and ripe up any paper that talks about terminating your rights as a parent or placing your child in foster care. If your parents or someone from a adoption agency is pressuring you to sign something, walk away. Here is a website from the Health department in Minnesota. It should give you information about getting medical care, WIC and possibly funding for housing. Craigslist.com is an awesome place to find cheap baby things. Be careful about Pregnancy Crisis Center, most of them will push you towards adoption.<a href="http://www.felinehealthguide.com/feline-acne.htm"> Angela</a> No, you are the only one that has a say in what happens to your child. DO NOT SIGN any paper work without reading it first and ripe up any paper that talks about terminating your rights as a parent or placing your child in foster care. If your parents or someone from a adoption agency is pressuring you to sign something, walk away.

Here is a website from the Health department in Minnesota. It should give you information about getting medical care, WIC and possibly funding for housing.

Craigslist.com is an awesome place to find cheap baby things.

Be careful about Pregnancy Crisis Center, most of them will push you towards adoption. Angela

]]> By: Bekahh! Mummy to 3! http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6938 Bekahh! Mummy to 3! Thu, 04 Mar 2010 08:38:50 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6938 no she cant! im a teenage mum to 3 if you want to talk email me -<a href="http://www.greatjewelrydesign.com/domestics-308"> Bekahh! Mummy to 3!</a> no she cant!

im a teenage mum to 3

if you want to talk email me - Bekahh! Mummy to 3!

]]> By: Cambria http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6937 Cambria Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:41:27 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6937 She can't force you to give up the baby. It is your child and it is your decision. She can make it very hard on you and -try- to make you choose the way she wants you too. But just know that she can't make you do it and there are other places to go to get support. Stay strong. Your first true act of being a parent is going to be fighting to keep your baby.<a href="http://www.greatjewelrydesign.com/precious-stones-341"> Cambria</a> She can’t force you to give up the baby. It is your child and it is your decision. She can make it very hard on you and -try- to make you choose the way she wants you too. But just know that she can’t make you do it and there are other places to go to get support. Stay strong. Your first true act of being a parent is going to be fighting to keep your baby. Cambria

]]> By: Ziggy http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6936 Ziggy Sat, 27 Feb 2010 07:56:04 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-my-mom-force-me-to-put-my-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-6936 no, she can't. you have to fight it if she does. did you get that? FIGHT it!!!! your child would much rather spend the first little while with it's mom in a home for young mothers or even a shelter than to be given away. i'm sorry your mom thinks that way. i could never imagine saying that to my girls. Now is the time you need her love, not her hatred<a href="http://www.secretfinance.com/offshore/offshore-trusts.htm"> Ziggy</a> no, she can’t.
you have to fight it if she does. did you get that? FIGHT it!!!!
your child would much rather spend the first little while with it’s mom in a home for young mothers or even a shelter than to be given away.

i’m sorry your mom thinks that way. i could never imagine saying that to my girls. Now is the time you need her love, not her hatred Ziggy

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