Comments on: can the Mother of the baby put the baby up for adoption with out the fathers consent.If he and his family are? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/ Thu, 17 May 2012 19:13:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: sierrab http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/comment-page-1/#comment-7393 sierrab Tue, 04 May 2010 22:14:27 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/#comment-7393 give the dad the baby...let him raise it and u seen sumthing good in him or u wont b prego<a href="http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/medical-equipment-leasing.htm"> sierrab</a> give the dad the baby…let him raise it and u seen sumthing good in him or u wont b prego sierrab

]]> By: dsayless http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/comment-page-1/#comment-7392 dsayless Tue, 04 May 2010 07:10:43 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/#comment-7392 Don't think she can, legally, but all she has to do is lie & say she doesn't know who the baby's father is, when it's born, right? Unless you're talking about an already-born child whose father is listed on the birth certificate...If the baby isn't born yet, I would make sure that the father was told as soon as the mother goes into labor & can get to the hospital & be there for the birth & all that, and make sure he is listed as the baby's father on the birth certificate, if he can. (don't understand why the mother would want to put the baby up for adoption while the father's family is willing to take it, unless she has serious reservations about their ability to parent her child as she sees appropriate, but she won't have this choice over whatever parents the adoption agency finds for her child, will she? Unless she wants to have an open adoption,where she knows the prospective parents--alot of people are going this route these days (I knew a girl that did this with her first child, about 25 years ago, she was only 17 or so when she had the baby, and could not afford to raise it right, and she wanted to give her child the opportunity to grow up in a better home than she could give it then, so she somehow arranged an open adoption, where she actually selected the couple that would take her baby & adopt it, and they have kept in touch over the years, and she was always on a friendly basis with them, and appreciated what they could do for her child that she couldn't, although she has since had a couple of kids by a later marriage that she has raised with her husband, and all her sons know each other, and they are all friends, so it can work out sometimes in the best way.<a href="http://www.legaldot.net/law/child-support/important-things-to-know-about-child-support.htm"> dsayless</a> Don’t think she can, legally, but all she has to do is lie & say she doesn’t know who the baby’s father is, when it’s born, right? Unless you’re talking about an already-born child whose father is listed on the birth certificate…If the baby isn’t born yet, I would make sure that the father was told as soon as the mother goes into labor & can get to the hospital & be there for the birth & all that, and make sure he is listed as the baby’s father on the birth certificate, if he can. (don’t understand why the mother would want to put the baby up for adoption while the father’s family is willing to take it, unless she has serious reservations about their ability to parent her child as she sees appropriate, but she won’t have this choice over whatever parents the adoption agency finds for her child, will she? Unless she wants to have an open adoption,where she knows the prospective parents–alot of people are going this route these days (I knew a girl that did this with her first child, about 25 years ago, she was only 17 or so when she had the baby, and could not afford to raise it right, and she wanted to give her child the opportunity to grow up in a better home than she could give it then, so she somehow arranged an open adoption, where she actually selected the couple that would take her baby & adopt it, and they have kept in touch over the years, and she was always on a friendly basis with them, and appreciated what they could do for her child that she couldn’t, although she has since had a couple of kids by a later marriage that she has raised with her husband, and all her sons know each other, and they are all friends, so it can work out sometimes in the best way. dsayless

]]> By: Lordpercywoosterxxviii http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/comment-page-1/#comment-7391 Lordpercywoosterxxviii Mon, 03 May 2010 21:06:43 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/#comment-7391 mothers and fathers have equal rights you need permission for his child sounds like you are being nasty why wouldn't you give it to his family obviously you have an agenda other than the baby's welfare<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Letter-of-Recommendation.htm"> Lordpercywoosterxxviii</a> mothers and fathers have equal rights
you need permission for his child
sounds like you are being nasty
why wouldn’t you give it to his family obviously you have an agenda other than the baby’s welfare Lordpercywoosterxxviii

]]> By: Stuart http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/comment-page-1/#comment-7390 Stuart Sat, 01 May 2010 21:37:20 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/#comment-7390 It goes to court, if the father is able to support he child and offer it a good life then the babe will go to him, and the mother will be slapped for not doing so sooner. You could lie and say that the babe was the result of a one night stand if you're not married, take it to an adoption agency a bit further away becuase "you didnt feel comfortable with the one in your current city". - This is morally wrong however and you'd be a total biach for doing it.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Resume/Resume-Example.htm"> Stuart</a> It goes to court, if the father is able to support he child and offer it a good life then the babe will go to him, and the mother will be slapped for not doing so sooner.

You could lie and say that the babe was the result of a one night stand if you’re not married, take it to an adoption agency a bit further away becuase “you didnt feel comfortable with the one in your current city”. - This is morally wrong however and you’d be a total biach for doing it. Stuart

]]> By: k4aic http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/comment-page-1/#comment-7389 k4aic Thu, 29 Apr 2010 13:35:29 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-the-mother-of-the-baby-put-the-baby-up-for-adoption-with-out-the-fathers-consentif-he-and-his-family-are/#comment-7389 No I think the father should be involved. It takes two to tango and the father has just as many rights as the mother. It is wrong to do something so significant without talking to the other party.<a href="http://www.secretfinance.com/offshore/offshore-privacy.htm"> k4aic</a> No I think the father should be involved. It takes two to tango and the father has just as many rights as the mother. It is wrong to do something so significant without talking to the other party. k4aic

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