Comments on: Can you choose to take your baby back in the future after youve given it away to open adoption? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 06:53:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Come Soon Lord Jesus http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7144 Come Soon Lord Jesus Tue, 06 Apr 2010 08:28:35 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7144 No adoption is not meant to be a temporary situation to let someone care for the child until the natural parents feel prepared and ready to parent. If someone has plans to eventually parent their child then they need to give someone temporary guardianship or have the child put in temporary foster care. Not place the child for adoption. The only way someone could adopt their natural child back is if the adoptive parents were willing to give up their rights and let that person adopt their child. I have heard of cases where adult adoptees have been adopt by their natural parent.<a href="http://www.autostires.com/tire-repair-kit-346"> Come Soon Lord Jesus</a> No adoption is not meant to be a temporary situation to let someone care for the child until the natural parents feel prepared and ready to parent. If someone has plans to eventually parent their child then they need to give someone temporary guardianship or have the child put in temporary foster care. Not place the child for adoption.

The only way someone could adopt their natural child back is if the adoptive parents were willing to give up their rights and let that person adopt their child. I have heard of cases where adult adoptees have been adopt by their natural parent. Come Soon Lord Jesus

]]> By: Marnie B http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7143 Marnie B Tue, 06 Apr 2010 02:33:40 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7143 Babies dont just happen. If teenagers (or anyone else who isnt ready to parent) didnt have sex, there would be no need for questions like this. Wait till you're done with school & preferably married to have sex, & then use contraception until you're ready to have a baby.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Resume.htm"> Marnie B</a> Babies dont just happen. If teenagers (or anyone else who isnt ready to parent) didnt have sex, there would be no need for questions like this. Wait till you’re done with school & preferably married to have sex, & then use contraception until you’re ready to have a baby. Marnie B

]]> By: Leigh http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7142 Leigh Mon, 05 Apr 2010 18:43:54 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7142 no, theyve lost all parental rights, an open adoption just means they receive photos and letters, and can visit, but only with the adoptive parents permission, theres no going back, it would be cruel to take a child from the home theyve grown up in, just because you decide you want to take care of him now.<a href="http://www.jewelrymakingidea.com/silver-jewelry-making.htm"> Leigh</a> no, theyve lost all parental rights, an open adoption just means they receive photos and letters, and can visit, but only with the adoptive parents permission, theres no going back, it would be cruel to take a child from the home theyve grown up in, just because you decide you want to take care of him now. Leigh

]]> By: dontknow86 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7141 dontknow86 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 01:12:59 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7141 Nope, once you sign it is not yours anymore.<a href="http://www.promusicmall.com/effects-12761"> dontknow86</a> Nope, once you sign it is not yours anymore. dontknow86

]]> By: Kay48219 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7140 Kay48219 Fri, 02 Apr 2010 23:19:34 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7140 STEREO-TYPING ARE WE????? I was kicked out of home on my 14th birthday and pulled out of school by my mom who was a bad parent.... I sold drugs to survive, I got pregnant at 16 had my son at 17 I am now 20 my son is will be 3 years of age on the 7th of this month.... Dec-2008 got pregnant Feb-2009 had a miscarriage (HEARTBROKEN SINCE).... I would never give my child(ren) up for anything. I worked two jobs and went to school dont sell drugs since I gave birth NEVER USED ANY TYPE OF DRUG..... I bought my house (NOT RENTING) but bought my house when I was 19 after a house I was renting caught on fire and I was homeless for 9months..... I never had any type of help NEVER been on my own and took in my two baby brother (5 & 7) I drive MY OWN CAR, I DO NOT DRINK OR PARTY heck I dont even go out... I no longer have any type of social life other then my man who I been with for almost 2 years (I NEVER CHEATED)...... I been reaped, in foster homes, homeless, miscarriage, house fire, laid-off, and so much more but I work hard to make something of myself and my family.... my son was walking at 9mon off bottle at 11months off sippy-cup since 12mon talking at 13mon and spelling at 2years old.. yeah thats right SPELLING words at age 2... talks like he is 5yo because i work hard with him, im not not a dead-beat mom or will i ever be so stop stereo-typing cuz im a teen mom and a d- a- m- n good one<a href="http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=rest"> Kay48219</a> STEREO-TYPING ARE WE????? I was kicked out of home on my 14th birthday and pulled out of school by my mom who was a bad parent…. I sold drugs to survive, I got pregnant at 16 had my son at 17 I am now 20 my son is will be 3 years of age on the 7th of this month…. Dec-2008 got pregnant Feb-2009 had a miscarriage (HEARTBROKEN SINCE)…. I would never give my child(ren) up for anything. I worked two jobs and went to school dont sell drugs since I gave birth NEVER USED ANY TYPE OF DRUG….. I bought my house (NOT RENTING) but bought my house when I was 19 after a house I was renting caught on fire and I was homeless for 9months….. I never had any type of help NEVER been on my own and took in my two baby brother (5 & 7) I drive MY OWN CAR, I DO NOT DRINK OR PARTY heck I dont even go out… I no longer have any type of social life other then my man who I been with for almost 2 years (I NEVER CHEATED)…… I been reaped, in foster homes, homeless, miscarriage, house fire, laid-off, and so much more but I work hard to make something of myself and my family…. my son was walking at 9mon off bottle at 11months off sippy-cup since 12mon talking at 13mon and spelling at 2years old.. yeah thats right SPELLING words at age 2… talks like he is 5yo

because i work hard with him, im not not a dead-beat mom or will i ever be

so stop stereo-typing cuz im a teen mom and a d- a- m- n good one Kay48219

]]> By: gypsywinter http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7139 gypsywinter Tue, 30 Mar 2010 21:13:01 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7139 No, no, no,....a thousand times no....it ain't happening, no how, no way! Once you surrender your parental rights to and of your own child....Bye, See You...you are no longer the legal parent and in fact are a LEGAL stranger to the child you gave birth to. Want to keep your child in your life?...nix the adoption stuff, tough it out.<a href="http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=Stress"> gypsywinter</a> No, no, no,….a thousand times no….it ain’t happening, no how, no way! Once you surrender your parental rights to and of your own child….Bye, See You…you are no longer the legal parent and in fact are a LEGAL stranger to the child you gave birth to. Want to keep your child in your life?…nix the adoption stuff, tough it out. gypsywinter

]]> By: Florida Girl http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7138 Florida Girl Mon, 29 Mar 2010 11:42:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7138 when you give your child up you cant come back and get it. Beside why you you do that, think of how that would make the child feel having to be taking away from their mom and dad. they would hate you very much for taking them away. as for giving up a child there isnt anything wrong with it. It takes a lot to give up your flesh and blood and know for one reason or another the child would be better off with someone else. It shows you're a very good mother and you really love your child. better then the ones that either kills it with abortion or just doesnt take care of it and lets the state care for them.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/First-Job-Guide.htm"> Florida Girl</a> when you give your child up you cant come back and get it. Beside why you you do that, think of how that would make the child feel having to be taking away from their mom and dad. they would hate you very much for taking them away.

as for giving up a child there isnt anything wrong with it. It takes a lot to give up your flesh and blood and know for one reason or another the child would be better off with someone else. It shows you’re a very good mother and you really love your child. better then the ones that either kills it with abortion or just doesnt take care of it and lets the state care for them. Florida Girl

]]> By: britt22 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7137 britt22 Sun, 28 Mar 2010 23:51:21 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7137 do you even understand how much damage that would do to a child. you cant give them away and let them get attached to a family and then 4 or five or whatever years later decude you want them back. your already causing them heartache when yougive them away dont give them more by making them lose another family, especially the one they know and love. and by the way its extremley hard to do something like that. not that often the mother wins in those cases.<a href="http://www.besthomeorganizers.com/913"> britt22</a> do you even understand how much damage that would do to a child. you cant give them away and let them get attached to a family and then 4 or five or whatever years later decude you want them back. your already causing them heartache when yougive them away dont give them more by making them lose another family, especially the one they know and love. and by the way its extremley hard to do something like that. not that often the mother wins in those cases. britt22

]]> By: Ferbs http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7136 Ferbs Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:22:03 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7136 Adoption is permanent. It means the new parents are the legal parents. Open adoptions do work. We're proof. But it's not guaranteed and often used to lure young women into surrendering. It's not a decision anyone should make on the assumption that they will even see their child again. They might not unless the adopted adult finds them. No...you cannot choose to take the "child" back after an adoption.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Letter-of-Recommendation.htm"> Ferbs</a> Adoption is permanent. It means the new parents are the legal parents.

Open adoptions do work. We’re proof. But it’s not guaranteed and often used to lure young women into surrendering.

It’s not a decision anyone should make on the assumption that they will even see their child again. They might not unless the adopted adult finds them.

No…you cannot choose to take the “child” back after an adoption. Ferbs

]]> By: CourtneyCatherine☺(mommyof2) http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-7135 CourtneyCatherine☺(mommyof2) Tue, 23 Mar 2010 13:31:32 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-choose-to-take-your-baby-back-in-the-future-after-youve-given-it-away-to-open-adoption/#comment-7135 No they couldnt, because when you give a child up for adoption you are signing away all your parental rights and giving the rights to the adoptive parents. The only way you could do that is if the adoptive parents gave the rights back to you. And people who would want to do that are pathetic and shouldnt be able to even get pregnant. Giving away your baby until your ready and the kid is grown up and "easier to handle" is the most disgusting thing ever. Use birth control if you dont want a baby yet.. simple as that. (I got pregnant at 17 because my birth control failed, but I take care of my responsibilities.. I dont give them to someone else)<a href="http://www.doggydisease.com/disease-in-dog.htm"> CourtneyCatherine☺(mommyof2)</a> No they couldnt, because when you give a child up for adoption you are signing away all your parental rights and giving the rights to the adoptive parents. The only way you could do that is if the adoptive parents gave the rights back to you.

And people who would want to do that are pathetic and shouldnt be able to even get pregnant.
Giving away your baby until your ready and the kid is grown up and “easier to handle” is the most disgusting thing ever.
Use birth control if you dont want a baby yet.. simple as that.

(I got pregnant at 17 because my birth control failed, but I take care of my responsibilities.. I dont give them to someone else) CourtneyCatherine☺(mommyof2)

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