Comments on: Can you give baby for adoption.what if he dosnt want to sign over his rights? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/ Mon, 13 Feb 2012 06:32:16 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: kemalee21 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4075 kemalee21 Fri, 08 May 2009 12:11:20 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4075 depending on what state you are in and if he is on the birth certificate, he may have no rights to her anyways. For my son's adoption, I didn't put the guy on the birth certificate and we were not married so in the state of TX he had no rights. Adoption went very well. depending on what state you are in and if he is on the birth certificate, he may have no rights to her anyways. For my son’s adoption, I didn’t put the guy on the birth certificate and we were not married so in the state of TX he had no rights. Adoption went very well.

]]> By: richard-browning@sbcglobal.net http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4074 richard-browning@sbcglobal.net Wed, 06 May 2009 22:33:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4074 the only way to sign over your child for adoption without his signing too is to put unknown on the birth certificate however if you do and the father is known one word to a lawyer family services the police or anyone along those lines and the case will be opened up on the adoption as well as you going to jail you cant keep him from getting custody it is his right to fight for his child if he shows the court he has the means there is nothing you can do the only way to sign over your child for adoption without his signing too is to put unknown on the birth certificate however if you do and the father is known one word to a lawyer family services the police or anyone along those lines and the case will be opened up on the adoption as well as you going to jail you cant keep him from getting custody it is his right to fight for his child if he shows the court he has the means there is nothing you can do

]]> By: durdenslabs http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4073 durdenslabs Wed, 06 May 2009 09:30:52 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4073 You can give her over to the state and explain the situation to them. She'll stay in foster care until his rights are terminated. He'll have 30 days (I think) to show up and try to "claim" her. He'll have to prove he can provide for her as any parent would. If he's as bad off as you say, then he'll have his rights terminated by a judge and the baby will be adopted into a good/stable/loving home. You can give her over to the state and explain the situation to them. She’ll stay in foster care until his rights are terminated. He’ll have 30 days (I think) to show up and try to “claim” her. He’ll have to prove he can provide for her as any parent would. If he’s as bad off as you say, then he’ll have his rights terminated by a judge and the baby will be adopted into a good/stable/loving home.

]]> By: kkbabyz http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4072 kkbabyz Mon, 04 May 2009 09:56:08 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4072 Seek sole custody with a lawyer or hope that he abandons the child that means no contact for 6 months ( a phone call counts as contact, this is how some children can't get adopted their birth mom or dad call every 6 months sad i know) or you can simply tell him that when he gets job and an apartment then maybe you'll reconsider it but explain to him that you'll try to go for an open adoption to make him feel less bitter about him giving up your baby girl :) Seek sole custody with a lawyer or hope that he abandons the child that means no contact for 6 months ( a phone call counts as contact, this is how some children can’t get adopted their birth mom or dad call every 6 months sad i know) or you can simply tell him that when he gets job and an apartment then maybe you’ll reconsider it but explain to him that you’ll try to go for an open adoption to make him feel less bitter about him giving up your baby girl :)

]]> By: james j http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4071 james j Sun, 03 May 2009 05:34:15 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4071 OK i THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU HAD A 1 NIGHT STAND WHAT IS GOING ON? NOW YOUR DATING FOR 4 YEARS AND FOR THE 4 YEARS YOU NEVER ASKED HIM IF HE HAD A JOB OR A HOME? You can go to a woman's shelter and did you even tell your parents or grandparents? God Bless OK i THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU HAD A 1 NIGHT STAND WHAT IS GOING ON? NOW YOUR DATING FOR 4 YEARS AND FOR THE 4 YEARS YOU NEVER ASKED HIM IF HE HAD A JOB OR A HOME?

You can go to a woman’s shelter and did you even tell your parents or grandparents?

God Bless

]]> By: Shannon http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4070 Shannon Sat, 02 May 2009 08:40:42 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4070 You have no choice in this matter. If you do not want to parent and he does, then that is his right. There are load of support programs through government and charity services out there for parents of all genders and if you won't seek them out then he can. The only way you can prevent him from "getting" your daughter is to parent her yourself. Adoption can not go through legally without his consent. You have no choice in this matter. If you do not want to parent and he does, then that is his right. There are load of support programs through government and charity services out there for parents of all genders and if you won’t seek them out then he can.

The only way you can prevent him from “getting” your daughter is to parent her yourself. Adoption can not go through legally without his consent.

]]> By: WSMA http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4069 WSMA Thu, 30 Apr 2009 07:54:21 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4069 Both parents need to consent to the adoption for the adoption to be legal and finalized. If the father doesn't want to give up his rights, then the woman can't give the baby up for adoption. Both parents need to consent to the adoption for the adoption to be legal and finalized. If the father doesn’t want to give up his rights, then the woman can’t give the baby up for adoption.

]]> By: Mrs.Cancer http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4068 Mrs.Cancer Mon, 27 Apr 2009 04:13:57 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4068 I am sure you love your child but why giving it for adoption if you can ask your parent or any family member who can help you out till you get a new job and settle your life once again. Asking for help is not a big thing if you wanted too and for me I will do everything to race my own child with or without a dad. Think carefully and make sure you wont regret on your decision. You are a better person and a mom for your child so keep it and nothing is impossible as long you keep trying. I am sure you love your child but why giving it for adoption if you can ask your parent or any family member who can help you out till you get a new job and settle your life once again. Asking for help is not a big thing if you wanted too and for me I will do everything to race my own child with or without a dad. Think carefully and make sure you wont regret on your decision. You are a better person and a mom for your child so keep it and nothing is impossible as long you keep trying.

]]> By: Adoptionissadnsick http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4067 Adoptionissadnsick Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:23:17 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4067 There are no infants who would willingly sign up for a life without mom and dad. There are no infants who would willingly sign up for a life without mom and dad.

]]> By: ♥♥Rita♥♥ http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-4066 ♥♥Rita♥♥ Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:44:47 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/can-you-give-baby-for-adoptionwhat-if-he-dosnt-want-to-sign-over-his-rights/#comment-4066 This is a 50 50 deal. The child is his too. If he doesn't want to sign his rights away....then no adoption. ETA: Good gosh!! To the posters below.....you cannot take your unwanted baby to the state social services and tell them the baby daddy doesn't have a job and you don't want him to parent and say "here you go".......You PPL haven't got a fliipin' clue. If the baby daddy wants to parent his child........then let him parent his child. You dated himn for four years and he was apaprently good enough then..........so hope like he!! he gets it together. If you don't want to parent the baby.....then let the baby have his/her daddy. IF the mom did take the baby to foster care....then that is abandonment on the mom's part and they would call the dad and tell him to come get his kid and MAKE sure the mom has a record and SHE would have to work a treatment plan. And to the other poster........why would you suggest this woman keep the baby for six months and then HOPe he abandons the BABY and then file TPR on him. Don't you think that baby has already attached to the mom?? Pathetic!! This is a 50 50 deal. The child is his too. If he doesn’t want to sign his rights away….then no adoption.

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Good gosh!! To the posters below…..you cannot take your unwanted baby to the state social services and tell them the baby daddy doesn’t have a job and you don’t want him to parent and say “here you go”…….You PPL haven’t got a fliipin’ clue. If the baby daddy wants to parent his child……..then let him parent his child. You dated himn for four years and he was apaprently good enough then……….so hope like he!! he gets it together. If you don’t want to parent the baby…..then let the baby have his/her daddy. IF the mom did take the baby to foster care….then that is abandonment on the mom’s part and they would call the dad and tell him to come get his kid and MAKE sure the mom has a record and SHE would have to work a treatment plan.

And to the other poster……..why would you suggest this woman keep the baby for six months and then HOPe he abandons the BABY and then file TPR on him. Don’t you think that baby has already attached to the mom?? Pathetic!!

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