My Adopted Baby

James’TeenMom♥born4.12 asked:


i’d really like to know your story and if u chose a close or an open adoption and how u chose the couple.
how did u feel when u give up your baby? how do u feel now? any regrets?

i’mma teen mom and a friend of mine in the club of pregnant teens i’m attending during the class of sexual ed. asked e to find any information about adoption.
please don’t answer if u r not a “teen mom”.
no shit, please.

Baby Liam due 6/8/09 asked:


I think she is way to young and has a life in front of her. My mother see the baby as child # 8.( which I am the Oldest of) My sister will do what she is told.She is terrified Icant be the only one that sees it. I want to tell her se has an option. I just dont know how with out being chastized. Then I will be un able to help at all. Did I mention No One was aware until yhey had to do an emergancy c section that she was pregnant. You think you would know,but you would be suprised on wht a baggy t shirt and some nevity can hide.

*Finally In College* asked:


Ok I’m 17 and possibly pregnant because i had unprotected sex and used the pull out method. I am trying to prepare myself for the worst (me being pregnant) and am comtemplating what i would do. I am a senior in highschool and i have already been accepted into a university with pre-admission into my major. Furthermore i am not dating the guy that i had sex with, although he likes me and would like a relationship up until the time i went away to college. I am 100% against abortion so please dont respond that as being an answer to my problem. I am just wondering because i love kids and infants and i think that i would love this baby sooo much but does that mean that im cut out to being a mother yet?? I have a job but that only pays me $7.75 an hour and its part-time and the father (if im pregnant) is unemployed and out of school, he wants to join the coast guard but he might not pass the tests for it. My parents would help me, i just have a feeling that they would, although they wouldnt be happy about it at first. I guess i could get past my dreams of going to a university and just stay home and go to the community college and then transfer to a university later on. But there is also adoption to consider, i would only do open-adoption because i would want the baby to know who i am and why i gave them up and that it was for their well being and not for selfish reasons. however, i would expect visitation rights with the adoption and i would want to see the baby a lot. so does this sound like im asking for too much with the adoption and would really be treating the adoptive parents more like babysitters rather than the new parents?? Please help me choose, keep the baby (if there is one) or give it up for an open-adoption that must guarantee me visitation rights.

, asked:


i wanted to know what are the steps i can take to give my baby for adoption?(i live in fl) do i need my parents permission?

LK asked:


I’m doing a project in health class and my teacher says that we will get bonus marks if we figure out the percentage of mothers that give their child up for adoption, have an abortion, or raise the baby themselves.

If you could help that would be great and please give sources so I can find out more information thnx so much

lamp.laura asked:


Or would you keep it? An open adoption is wheir you can see the child as it grows up, call it, visit and other things like that
I am NOT pregnant, just wanted to hear what other people had to answer.

lamp.laura asked:


Or would you keep it? An open adoption is wheir you can see the child as it grows up, call it, visit and other things like that
I am NOT pregnant, just wanted to hear what other people had to answer.

+Black babe named Misa+ asked:


like some teens can take care of a child. and generalized that just because one teen they have seen on tv as a bad figure, decides that all are..

like me personaly, if i was to have a baby right now, i wouldnot waste my 9 months of pain, and pregnancy just to give it away for adoption… id find the best wa i can to make it for the both of us =)

+Black babe named Misa+ asked:


like some teens can take care of a child. and generalized that just because one teen they have seen on tv as a bad figure, decides that all are..

like me personaly, if i was to have a baby right now, i wouldnot waste my 9 months of pain, and pregnancy just to give it away for adoption… id find the best wa i can to make it for the both of us =)

Lalala L asked:


is it one of those things that is easier to say than do? because everybody says never become a teenage mother, and i told them that adoption is always an option, but they keep saying that its really hard to do, no matter how inconvienent the baby is.