My Adopted Baby

Aly asked:


Please tell me the rate of adoption within China with the latest statistic possible. This is not the international rate but only the rate of adopition for chinese born babies in china. In other words what is the intranational rate of adoption for China.

Mady T asked:


Which adoption agency is the most reliable and the cheapest for adopting children from China? Is there a group or any one who can give me advice on how to go about the adoption process?

Sweet Sue asked:


I would like to get info on adoptions in china does anyone know how I go about this? Please know scams. I have a 3 year old baby girl and I would like her to have a sister and I would also like to help a child that needs a loving family. I would like to know where to start

Rose’s asked:


Hello. I need to get information about beign adoption child in China.
I want to adoption between baby to 12 months from China,
I am not USA citizens, but I do have USA green card (residence alien in USA). Its ok adoption for that?
Also How can I start process for adoption? Look for lawyer and fees? How much fees adoption do you think?
Please give me some advice. I’ll appreciate it.
Thank you.

sweetcoloradochick asked:


i am so happy that my sister gave her baby up for adoption. the problem is, is that my family is still attached to the child and still call the baby theirs. meanwhile their only grandson, my son is put on the back burner for this baby that isn’t even theirs anymore. i am frustrated and doen right pissed off because my son is put second, even my grandmother will not see my son but made a huge deal about seeing the other baby.
i was not near the family when all of this went down, i have meet the child and do not feel any conection with him because i feel that he has been given to a great wonderful family and that he is now not a part of our family.
my husband is also adopted and i would never consider his birth mother to be an actually part of the family, don’t get me wrong we are very grateful to her, but thats as far as it goes.
how can i convey this to my family in a tactful manner.
it’s an open adoption and it has been 8 months and nothing has gotten better. the adopting family have had to cut contact with my mom and sister who is 19, because they want to go see him all the time, they have seen him about 3-4 times
i am actually my grandmas favorite grandchild because in her eyes i do everything right ( i will let her think that LOL) but i think that she won’;t see him because she doesn’t want to lose another great grandchild
actually, i didn;t adopt and if i did i would tell them of the great and loving sacrifice that their birth mother did for them.
spoochy you are really mature.
my husband is the one that has the harder time eith all of this and he is the one that is adopted. i don;’t think that i would get upset but i see how it is affecting my son and when he asks me why his grandparents always talk about this other child and not him, that tends to hit a nerve.

Walter Ford II asked:


http://news.ph.msn.com/top-stories/article.aspx?cp-documentid=3784359

What percentage of the baby’s being trafficked out of China, are girls?
Would it have been smarter to help instead of help yourself to.
How has adoption played a role in forced prostitution of girls that are currently living in China (ya know the big picture)?

KAG asked:


I am planning on putting my baby for adoption. I am 6 months pregnant right now. I want to have a closed adoption but I want to make sure she will go to a new and permanent home right away. How does closed adoption usually work?

Someone asked:


I am interested in placing my baby for adoption, but my “hubby” has a name on the birth certificate. I don’t think he is really the father and I don’t want him to fight me placing her. He is an alcoholic and he is extremely abusive. I don’t want her in the wrong hands. Is it possible to have his name taken off the birth certificate, he hardly did anything when she was born anyway. He’s a lazy fucker.

Angel Y asked:


She has a P.F.A on him that will probally be thrown out of court along with his charges when the judge hears her bogus story. She is due in August before the hearing and he is not aloud to be at the hospital to see the baby or sign any papers.What should he do?

Mariah asked:


I’m scared I think I want to give my baby up for adoption. I don’t think I can take care of her. I have a crappy job at a fast food joint and my car just went out on me. What should I do? I can barely take care of myself and the dad walked out on me.