My Adopted Baby

Hello asked:


im gonna try to make this short, my ex sister in law is having my brothers child, shes about 4 months along. shes putting him/her up for adoption. anyway i said straight out id take the baby in since she didnt want it. problem is she has something against me, and is making excuses to why shes giving it away to people outside the family. she already contacted some adoption woman (dont know her name or number) and is going to look for potential parents….since the baby is technically part of my family do i have any say? i have a lovely home. and wouldn’t mind taking this to court..
the dad is having alot of health issues. he wouldn’t be able to take the baby.

ɮɛռȶʟɛʏֆ ʍօʍʍʏ♥ asked:


Im not pregnant or giving my son up for adoption, i was watching adoption diaries last night and started thinking if i would be able to do that…I don’t think i would be able to..Carrying the baby for 9 months, seeing the ultrasounds & then giving birth and then just handing the baby over would be to hard…Would you be able to do that?

Theres no point to this question really except it was something to do…

Just so nobody gets mad, i have nothing against adoption. i would just get to attached to the baby.

Deans asked:


Would you feel relief? Sadness? Would you offer to adopt her baby? Would you try to encourage her to keep it?

Na asked:


Would a mother who puts up her baby daughter for adoption consider allowing a singal man to adopt her? He would be a good father.

Chris asked:


What responsibilities does she retain?
Any at all?

Single mother suck asked:


If a single mother has baby that is permanently sick shouldn’t that mother be forced to give baby up for adoption?

Single mothers are not good mothers and cannot take care of a sick child on their own. I have certain user in mind.

parentingpro asked:


Do you just leave it on the doorstep at the orphange or do you have to take it somewhere like a adoption company?

stressedmother asked:


Please hear my story before you judge. I am married, and my husband and i have been married for 6 years now. We have a 1 year old son, who is a ’special needs’ baby, and is on medicines and many doctors appointments. We live in a very small town, and his closest doctor is a 45 minute drive away. Everything has been fine until about 6 months ago. My husbands work went out of business, and our only car broke down. We were renting to own a house, but the owner of the house passed away unexpecdedly, so we were forced to move out, and now live in an apartment. Yes, our son has WIC, etc, but WIC only covers half of his formula since it is prescribed by his doctor because of his health needs. Also, the state insurance doesnt cover his medicine, which we could afford until all this other stuff happened. We love our son very much. But everything in our life seems to be going wrong and we can barely afford to live. I just want the best for my son, someone who can afford to provide for him.
Liek i said, we really love our son. We put all of our money to him. Sometimes my husband and i dont eat, etc, just so we can affford to buy his medicine. I am doing the best i can as a mother,really. But i cant handle it anymore. We live in a very small town, with little to no job opportunities. My husband has a fake knee-cap from a Navy injury from 8 years ago, and he is having a hard time finding a job. I stay home with our son because we cant afford daycare anymore. I too am adopted. I would ask my parents for help, but i dont have any. My husband has a only a mom, who cant help either. I just need some advice on what to do. We were a perfect little family, and now everything has taken a turn for the worse. I dont care if i get to eat or not, i just want the best for my son.
Some of you are VERY rude and hurtful. I am not trying to ‘give away my son’ just so i can have more money. I am thinking about adoption so that he can have everything he needs and deserves. How does that make me a bad mother, because i care about his needs?
I do not own a computer or cell phone. I dont even have a phone line. I am at the local library, but thanks for assuming, being rude to me, and making me feel worse

42_2001 asked:


My husband and I know someone that is in trouble with the law and may give her baby up for adoption. We are infertile and really want to adopt. She hasnt said yes yet to anyone but she will have to go to jail a fe days after the birth. She is due in 5 days. If she waits until shes in labor to call us can we still adopt and bring the baby home from the hospital or will dhr get baby if she doesnt want it since we dont have any paper work with atty or a homestudy done as of yet? We wanted to get all of this done asap but we were waiting on her to say yes. We are so nervous that we wont get the baby and it may have to go to foster care.

Bebe asked:


It is amazing how fast the process is for people from certain “privileged” social classes. Is it money or a good lawyer? I know couples that are on this “wait list” for months or even years and they have to travel all the way to Europe or Asia to adopt a baby.