My Adopted Baby

Barbie08 asked:


til i am on my feet do i go through an adoption agencie or foster agencie???

Em asked:


or could i choose to live with the father of my baby and raise him/her with him?

mc☮♫ asked:


HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION:
Say if I were to get pregnant tomorrow (I’m 16), what are the pro’s and con’s of keeping the child or giving it up for adoption? Termination of the pregnancy is not an option. The father is a good friend, not someone who I would, the situation allowing, marry, but he would be there to support me and be there for all appts and such. What would you do? I have heard that putting the baby up for adoption is harder on the mother, what with post partum depression and separation depression and such. Opinoins?
Really, I promise I’m not pregnant haha. This is just an area of study that I’m interested in. But sadly, it IS all too common amongst teens all across the country, so I am just trying to understand it all. Thanks

Angel asked:


I was dating an abusive man for almost 2 years now & earlier this year I found out I was pregnant. In the course of the last almost 2 years of being & knowing of him, I have been traumatized with too much that I can’t handle to where I can’t get my own life back because of this man. He has done such awful things not only to me but to himself as he is very obsessed with me & has gone so far as to try & hurt himself, making me watch him hurt him self, in MANY types of ways. From being emotionally, mentally, verbally & physically abused with this extremely jealous man to seeing him hurting himself has inflicted alot of trauma within me.

I’m due soon with our baby & I do NOT feel I can do this alone & also his threats of all kinds scares the CRAP out of me. I’m scared of this man period I have severe PTSD. I shouldn’t have to live in fear but how can I care fro a newborn if I’m too scared to for myself?

I have thought of giving up the baby for adoption for HER safety because I do NOT trust what the father will do……I want the best for her.

Is adoption a good idea? I want opinions on this, please. I’m also 36.

Thank you.

Bloom B asked:


and now i cant do it , my mind is telling me its the best thing for her but my heart says no ! i dont have a job and neither does the fahter … he got 2 kids by 2 diff woman and dosnt live in his own place.. i live with roomates and my family dosnt live in America … i dont know what to do !

Kar asked:


Just wondered what your own feelings were, did you find it awful or were you ok and happy becasue baby going to another happy home?

Thank you!

Poop Thrower asked:


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Jade asked:


I know It’s a hard decision and I was wondering what you people think about it.
Right now I’m not sure what’s the best to do. I’m a sophmore in high school, my boyfriend has a job, but it doesn’t earn that much. He wants to give the baby up for adoption.

What do you think?

Say goodbye to hollywood asked:


I ask this because every adopted girl i know is a raging whore, which i totally like! But i would not want to be the father of one of these pole dancers. I would personally rather just abort it than risk what my daughter could be. What would you do?

Taryn// Having a June Bug! asked:


This just makes me sick!
&& Ill say well Im keeping the baby no matter what you think, because I dont care what you think.. its my choice in the end.. so just leave me or ill leave you, and he says we cant leave each other because im carrying his baby! wtf!!
Victoria, I was thinking the same thing..