My Adopted Baby

Jade asked:


I know It’s a hard decision and I was wondering what you people think about it.
Right now I’m not sure what’s the best to do. I’m a sophmore in high school, my boyfriend has a job, but it doesn’t earn that much. He wants to give the baby up for adoption.

What do you think?

Say goodbye to hollywood asked:


I ask this because every adopted girl i know is a raging whore, which i totally like! But i would not want to be the father of one of these pole dancers. I would personally rather just abort it than risk what my daughter could be. What would you do?

Taryn// Having a June Bug! asked:


This just makes me sick!
&& Ill say well Im keeping the baby no matter what you think, because I dont care what you think.. its my choice in the end.. so just leave me or ill leave you, and he says we cant leave each other because im carrying his baby! wtf!!
Victoria, I was thinking the same thing..

Jodie M asked:


here is my problems:
I am 22 years old and confused well ,knocked up and confused.
I was falling out of love with my baby daddy he knew it an all start screwing around with other people I was mad but can’t let him go then I find out I’m pregnant.
He says whatever I want to do with the baby is cool he’s for it but I say adoption he’s like “no” he’d rather take care of it
I still live with my parents and they would rather take care of the baby to
I feel like my mom has no job my boyfriend has no job my grandma has income but is struggling so I want to give up to a family who is more financial stable I was looking into an open adoption
but me working I’m embarrassed cause I never knew anyone who you know gave their baby up for adoption
I’m thinking about just quitting my job and being a stay at home mom to but seriously thats stupid i’d be even more you know broke .
What should I do?
I would be embrassed to come to work pregnant and then tell everyone I’m giving my baby away

Vanessa M asked:


I’m 27 weeks pregnant and considering adoption for my baby. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We’re not financially ready to have a baby. We live below the poverty line, neither of us work. Not because of not wanting to, but there are no jobs where we live and don’t have the resources to move. The best job my husband could find was $6/hr at Krogers. It doesn’t pay our bills. I worked retail for a while, but quit when I had problems with my pregnancy. My hubby and I both grew up in poverty and have not really been able to escape it. It’s like a viscious cycle. It’s a horrible life for a child. I’m scared of adoption because I feel very attached to my baby, even though I know it is probably in his best interest. How would I even present this idea to my husband? Should I even do it? Are there other options?
We’re in the process of getting rid of things we can live without, like tv, internet, etc. I’m already on WIC.
we can’t afford to move and have no help. we already receive govt assistance.

HappyMomAnna asked:


There is some information given over on the Adoption Questions section suggesting that Young Pregnant Women are attacked by baby stealing Adoption Agencies and attacked by People wanting to Adopt their baby.

My Question is to those who might be Young and Pregnant who have NOT even considered Adoption–Have you been Solicited here or in real life by Adoption Businesses or Interested Adoptive Parents to give them your baby?

Do you know what a “Dear Birth Mother” Letter is?

Do people email you telling you they want your baby–even if you have never mentioned Adoption as one of the choices you might make?

For those pregnant whom have never had contact with an Adoption Professional–or people interested in Adopting your baby do you Feel like you are being Solicited to place a baby for adoption?

Just interested if the General Public of young mothers are attacked by the evil Adoption People—or Not?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080331041651AAmmpct&r=w#O6VwOFK6GVa5C.jJec6y
If you feel that you cannot post an answer here in public will you please just email me and let me know that you have been asked to place your baby for adoption… I will Not tell who you are–I just would like to know if this REALLY is a problem in 2008?

BeautifulFairy asked:


if you did not want you’re baby because of different reasons say rape/incest/something wrong with the baby or it would kill you to have a baby would u have an abortion?

no asked:


I live in SC if that makes any difference
HE IS AN ALCOHOLIC HAS NO JOB AND HIS TAGS ARE SUSPENDED.

janus_09 asked:


i want the adoption because i cannot raise a child that is a constand reminder of what she did outside our marriage. She feels insulted that i even brought it up. i’m trying forgive and compromise to save the marriage but this is difficult as you could imagine. ( please save the unproductive comments) just searching for positive input on my dilemna. thanks.

Courtney S asked:


I am 24 weeks pregnant with an unplanned little girl. At first we were petrefied and had no idea what to do. I juggled all of my options, all while getting my necessary prenatal care. I had decided that I was going to make a great mom, by hell or high water. We are not in the worst situation, we are almost 24, living together for the last 2 years with decent jobs in a wonderful suburban neighborhood. I know we can do this, and now, I want to. I’ve already been getting things ready for the baby, and we are moving to a bigger place in just 2 weeks to accomodate. My family is excited, as are our friends. His mother and stepfather are being very supportive, and she is providing us with resources that she used when she found herself in the same situation. I adore her. However, he just told his father who lives all the way across the country, who he has never been very close with. This man has never acknowledged me as a “girlfriend” but rather always called me his “friend”.
He has always been very cold to me, which is very unnatural for me as Ive always been close with friends parents, and previous boyfriends parents. His father, and step mom are now doing everything in their power to convince him that he will not be a good father, he cant handle the responsibility and that he isnt ready. They are telling him he needs to put this baby up for adoption, and it’s the only practical choice. I am OFFENDED obviously, and they are dead set on changing his mind. It’s hard enough being in a committed unwed relationship and finding yourself pregnant, let alone having someone scare your partner into either giving your child away, or running away themself! (i dont think he would ever just take off, but they are absolutely scaring the living day lights out of him, and listening to that would be enough to scare even ME away) what the hell am i supposed to do here?!