Giving up baby for adoption?
Gimke asked:
we are giving up our baby for adoption and i am just curious as to if the adoptive parents will be able to truly love our child as if it was their own even though the child is adopted. I worry about if we are making the right choice by going with adoption.
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we are giving up our baby for adoption and i am just curious as to if the adoptive parents will be able to truly love our child as if it was their own even though the child is adopted. I worry about if we are making the right choice by going with adoption.
October 1st, 2009 at 6:50 am
You should be worried, there are so many psychos out there! Are you sure you want to go through with it? Are you still pregnant? Being a mom is the most wonderful thing in the world and this is coming from a woman who couldn’t stand kids most of her life. Think long and hard before you make this choice because it could come back to haunt you. Isis Grace
October 3rd, 2009 at 2:10 am
isn’t there some way where you can choose the parents? or have an open adoption something like that. not really sure. b.noiz
October 3rd, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Yes your baby will be very loved, don’t forget the family that adopt your baby most likely can’t have one of their own and would be more than happy and loving towards your child. Your decision to give your child over to another family is a very selfless one and you should be very proud of your self. Mummy to a micro prem
October 5th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Well if you guys know in your heart that you guys can’t give your baby everything and you guys are just too young or just can’t and if your heart tells you it’s the right thing to do. Many adopted children can feel and may not feel loved by their adoptive parents. I think that you need to get your mind set on what it’s best for your baby–not just for you and your bf/gf..(not sure if you’re a male or a female). A baby will eventually be older and might want or not want to know who is her/his biological parents. It could be an emotional stress and it may not be. YOu have to think about this factors, also! Think about it and decide on what’s best for your baby. Do you really want to move on without your child or can you? Love is love and if it’s about material things then maybe you shouldn’t. There’s always a way! Ur in My ♥ just like a Tattoo
October 8th, 2009 at 5:12 pm
I think you should seriously read those pages. I’m an adoptee and I struggle everyday with the loss of my natural mother. Please rethink your decision. Fuaite le fuil, gaolta go deo