How do you cope with giving up a baby for adoption?
♥KiYoMi♥ asked:
I think I will cry all day every day for the rest of my life even though I do have 2 older kids to care for.
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I think I will cry all day every day for the rest of my life even though I do have 2 older kids to care for.
May 31st, 2010 at 3:15 pm
Just get an abortion. Then you can go on about your life. Jake
June 3rd, 2010 at 2:40 pm
Just remember you gave that child a chance to live and to be happy and you did what was best for the baby cassie L
June 6th, 2010 at 12:24 am
You gave the baby up for good reason. I’m guessing you did it so they could have a better life than what you can provide for them. Its sad giving away any baby but sometimes it is for the best. If your like me just talking about it helps. However if you are really sad maybe seek professional help. They can help you with your grief more than most or any of us could. Kris2005
June 7th, 2010 at 10:53 pm
I’m adopted! I’m an identical twin and my birth mom had 2 sons before us also. She kept them but gave us up for adoption. Shortly after us she became pregnant again with a little girl and gave her up for adoption as well but last minute, she took her back.
The best way to cope is confidence that you are doing the right thing for the child and yourself. I know my birth mom did the right thing for me.
It will with out a doubt be the hardest thing you will ever have to do but you have to stay strong.
You choose it because you love that child and you want him/her to have the best life possible. Sometimes you can’t provide that so you trust someone else to.
If you are sure this is the right choice, you’ll cry. but not every day for the rest of your life… don’t do that to yourself. You can’t be selfish but you also can’t let that destroy you. At the end of every day, it’s all good. It’s all out of LOVE and you will have the comfort of knowing that you love this child and that they are in good hands. Ariana
June 10th, 2010 at 6:08 am
I was coerced into surrendering and I coped because the alternative was death. I have suffered with depression due to my son being adopted, have self harmed and been suicidal. Reunion which has failed made the pain worse. Fortunately I have a supportive husband, in laws and friends. Pip
June 13th, 2010 at 5:01 am
You grieve and you go on, Get counseling if you need it and remember why you did it. De