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		<title>By: Rani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 19:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually was studying this last semester in my women study class.  China has screwed themselves big time, the male to female ratio is considered to be catastrophic.  For every 100 females - 120 males are born, this means that in 20 years, 1/5 of the Chinese male population will be unable to marry.  Adding to the problem, most poor women now work in factories to support their aging parents, meaning that they are pushing back the time to marry until their parents die.  If they marry any earning they make will go to their husband's family.   Women are marrying later, which increases the risk of infertility.  Adding to the mix, the cities are some of the most polluted in the world and the factories are often filled with hazardous chemicals, both are increasing infertility problems in Chinese women.  This is fueling the kidnapping of children to be sold to to Chinese couples who are having difficulty conceiving.  Infertility is considered a sign of great shame and without a son, there is no one to care for a elderly couple.  Many families are now starting to purchases girls when their sons are a few years old so when he grows up, he has a wife.  Many of the unfortunate girls will be treated as little more than slaves by the families. 

The one child policy created this nightmare, adoption added to the problem, most girls were killed/aborted but those who would have been left over in orphans to grow up to be future wives, were sent overseas.  Normally those girls would have been unmarriable, growing up an orphan is seen as a great sign of shame in China.  But when you have few girls to pick from, well there goes being picky.  I have no idea how many girls are being traffic outside of China but I remember reading somewhere that about 190 children are kidnapped each day.  Most are sold to other Chinese families in a different province.  Some are also sold to foreign citizens who can pay, many of them were turned down by the Chinese government to adopt due to being unfit PAP's.  

Hopefully China will completely shut down foreign adoption and that may lighten the kidnappings of the girls.  What would help the most would be to remove the one child rule (although it has been changed to 2 in many rural areas).  Reducing the pollutions levels and making work environments safe would have a major impact on the infertility rate.   Also better assistance for the elderly so women didn't have to work until there parents died before marrying.  This would also reduce the pressure to have a male child, hopefully lowering the kidnapping of Chinese boys.  Adoption didn't create the current problem in China, China would have been screwed even if they had barred adoption by foreigners.  But allowing foreign adoption to continue in the current climate is helping to fuel the kidnapping and trafficking of children.  Nobody who believes in ethical adoption would consider adopting a Chinese child or any international adopts either, this problem is not a Chinese only issue.&lt;a href="http://www.proofficesupply.com/medical-office-supply.htm"&gt; Rani&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually was studying this last semester in my women study class.  China has screwed themselves big time, the male to female ratio is considered to be catastrophic.  For every 100 females - 120 males are born, this means that in 20 years, 1/5 of the Chinese male population will be unable to marry.  Adding to the problem, most poor women now work in factories to support their aging parents, meaning that they are pushing back the time to marry until their parents die.  If they marry any earning they make will go to their husband&#8217;s family.   Women are marrying later, which increases the risk of infertility.  Adding to the mix, the cities are some of the most polluted in the world and the factories are often filled with hazardous chemicals, both are increasing infertility problems in Chinese women.  This is fueling the kidnapping of children to be sold to to Chinese couples who are having difficulty conceiving.  Infertility is considered a sign of great shame and without a son, there is no one to care for a elderly couple.  Many families are now starting to purchases girls when their sons are a few years old so when he grows up, he has a wife.  Many of the unfortunate girls will be treated as little more than slaves by the families. </p>
<p>The one child policy created this nightmare, adoption added to the problem, most girls were killed/aborted but those who would have been left over in orphans to grow up to be future wives, were sent overseas.  Normally those girls would have been unmarriable, growing up an orphan is seen as a great sign of shame in China.  But when you have few girls to pick from, well there goes being picky.  I have no idea how many girls are being traffic outside of China but I remember reading somewhere that about 190 children are kidnapped each day.  Most are sold to other Chinese families in a different province.  Some are also sold to foreign citizens who can pay, many of them were turned down by the Chinese government to adopt due to being unfit PAP&#8217;s.  </p>
<p>Hopefully China will completely shut down foreign adoption and that may lighten the kidnappings of the girls.  What would help the most would be to remove the one child rule (although it has been changed to 2 in many rural areas).  Reducing the pollutions levels and making work environments safe would have a major impact on the infertility rate.   Also better assistance for the elderly so women didn&#8217;t have to work until there parents died before marrying.  This would also reduce the pressure to have a male child, hopefully lowering the kidnapping of Chinese boys.  Adoption didn&#8217;t create the current problem in China, China would have been screwed even if they had barred adoption by foreigners.  But allowing foreign adoption to continue in the current climate is helping to fuel the kidnapping and trafficking of children.  Nobody who believes in ethical adoption would consider adopting a Chinese child or any international adopts either, this problem is not a Chinese only issue.<a href="http://www.proofficesupply.com/medical-office-supply.htm"> Rani</a></p>
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		<title>By: monkeykitty83</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 14:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The way adoption happens in China is a symptom of major underlying problems, not a primary causal factor in itself.

The causes are social and economic inequality, political repression, deeply ingrained sexism, and an oppressive One Child Policy that denies people reproductive freedom and makes them unable to keep and protect children they would otherwise care for.

The adoption overseas of an excessive number of Chinese girls who would otherwise be contributing to a more sustainable demographic balance is one symptom. Forced abortion, infanticide, kidnapping and trafficking, and minimizing the role of women and girls are other symptoms.

How to "help" in China is complicated. Just sending money into the hands of the regime doing the repressing is counterproductive. Sponsorship programs can be helpful if they're legit, and governments can exert political pressure, but there's a limit to how much foreign nationals can really do to force political change in a country where they are not citizens.

Just banning adoption from China would not be enough to solve the problem. China needs political and social change at the most basic level, to allow their citizens the freedom to care for their own children. A stronger social safety net needs to be in place within the country. Chinese citizens need to be encouraged to care for the orphans in their own country. The issues in China that have led to this problem run VERY deep, and unfortunately there is no single easy answer.

Broad social change is needed, including in the area of adoption, but not limited to that area. If we really want to see the "big picture," we can't just stop at adoption and look no further; we have to look at the factors that have led to China exporting so many of its children. We can't mistake the consequence for the cause, and for a solution to be viable, it needs to address the root issues that led to the situation.&lt;a href="http://www.promusicmall.com/modules-and-samplers-12873"&gt; monkeykitty83&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way adoption happens in China is a symptom of major underlying problems, not a primary causal factor in itself.</p>
<p>The causes are social and economic inequality, political repression, deeply ingrained sexism, and an oppressive One Child Policy that denies people reproductive freedom and makes them unable to keep and protect children they would otherwise care for.</p>
<p>The adoption overseas of an excessive number of Chinese girls who would otherwise be contributing to a more sustainable demographic balance is one symptom. Forced abortion, infanticide, kidnapping and trafficking, and minimizing the role of women and girls are other symptoms.</p>
<p>How to &#8220;help&#8221; in China is complicated. Just sending money into the hands of the regime doing the repressing is counterproductive. Sponsorship programs can be helpful if they&#8217;re legit, and governments can exert political pressure, but there&#8217;s a limit to how much foreign nationals can really do to force political change in a country where they are not citizens.</p>
<p>Just banning adoption from China would not be enough to solve the problem. China needs political and social change at the most basic level, to allow their citizens the freedom to care for their own children. A stronger social safety net needs to be in place within the country. Chinese citizens need to be encouraged to care for the orphans in their own country. The issues in China that have led to this problem run VERY deep, and unfortunately there is no single easy answer.</p>
<p>Broad social change is needed, including in the area of adoption, but not limited to that area. If we really want to see the &#8220;big picture,&#8221; we can&#8217;t just stop at adoption and look no further; we have to look at the factors that have led to China exporting so many of its children. We can&#8217;t mistake the consequence for the cause, and for a solution to be viable, it needs to address the root issues that led to the situation.<a href="http://www.promusicmall.com/modules-and-samplers-12873"> monkeykitty83</a></p>
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		<title>By: 7rin</title>
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		<dc:creator>7rin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 11:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*shakes head* You'd think (well, I think) that with such a limitation on how many women are now available, that they'd (the Chinese in general) would be treasuring their women, rather than pimping them out.

Tbh, I know not an awful lot about the Chinese problems, but seems a good site to peruse.&lt;a href="http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=antioxidant+supplements"&gt; 7rin&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*shakes head* You&#8217;d think (well, I think) that with such a limitation on how many women are now available, that they&#8217;d (the Chinese in general) would be treasuring their women, rather than pimping them out.</p>
<p>Tbh, I know not an awful lot about the Chinese problems, but seems a good site to peruse.<a href="http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=antioxidant+supplements"> 7rin</a></p>
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