My Adopted Baby

10 Responses to “i am 20 weeks pregnant & thinking about giving my baby away to a adoption family for a couple months?”

1. Sam Says:
   March 13th, 2010 at 11:19 pm

   think about it u give ur baby to a orphanige and he/she grows up thinking she is unloved and
   will probaly be depressed or u can get a abortian and help many disabled people Sam

2. LaFleur Says:
   March 15th, 2010 at 3:11 pm

   Once you give away your child, you give up all your parental rights. LaFleur

3. Due 3/17/10 with Arianna Says:
   March 18th, 2010 at 3:30 pm

   You can’t give away a baby and then take it back. I think you should just adopt, you don’t sound mature enough to have a kid. Due 3/17/10 with Arianna

4. hesperias_witch Says:
   March 21st, 2010 at 10:13 am

   Do adoption..you can even do an open adoption where you can chose the family and have some ties… Please please do not use the foster care system….an attorney for an adoption will help you with expenses… Good luck… hesperias_witch

5. William Says:
   March 22nd, 2010 at 6:00 pm

   You can’t do that. Foster care is for parents who neglect or abuse their children and once children are taken from you, you need to prove you are a fit parent. Adoption is for parents who terminate their parental rights, it is a permanent decision.
   If you want to keep your baby and you need outside assistance, you should check out government assistance programs. William

6. Skibabe Says:
   March 24th, 2010 at 7:59 am

   You wouldn’t be able to adopt out on such a short-term basis. Best if you talk to your local social security agency about possible fostering.

   Or is there a trusted relative who could help you out? Is there really no way you could have your baby with you those first 2 months? Maybe with more info about what’s up and what you need to get on your feet, it’s hard to help more. But definitely start with social services and/or your doctor. Good luck, hope everything works out. Skibabe

7. becca Says:
   March 25th, 2010 at 2:36 pm

   You would go through a foster agency.
   If you go through an adoption agency then your baby would no longer be yours and you wouldn’t be able to get him/her back.
   My parents used to work at a foster agency and they would sometimes get kids whose parents put them in there until they were on their feet again.
   It’s a great thing to consider so that you can properly provide for your baby. becca

8. Ella Says:
   March 25th, 2010 at 8:20 pm

   if you give it up for adoption you cant get your baby back your given it away to another family you cant just take it back so if you dont think you can love your baby but if you dont think you can handle a baby just yet and you want to get on ur feet u use a foster agencie so you can get your baby back when you are back on your feet Ella

9. Carissa Neher Says:
   March 26th, 2010 at 10:35 pm

   you either keep the baby or dont. you cant ship them off somewhere just for convenience. a child is a full responsibility all the time. Carissa Neher

10. sexy mama of 1 Says:
    March 29th, 2010 at 6:46 pm

    a baby is not a shirt that you just loan out for a few months tell your ready to wear it again. once you give your baby away your baby is gone and you have no more rights.
    if you were a big enough girl to get pregnant and then you have 9 months to get on your feet what do you need a few more months for anyway?
    but since you do think you need more time don’t you think you should be adult enough to just say i cant do this and give that baby to some one who is on there feet who is dying for a baby and is adult enough to be on there feet? if they can afford the outrageous costs of adoption then they should be financially stable enough to care for the baby and if you have any mothers intuition you should realize that, a happy stable home that can support the baby is the best place for them. sexy mama of 1

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