Comments on: i am 20 weeks pregnant & thinking about giving my baby away to a adoption family for a couple months?

By: sexy mama of 1

sexy mama of 1 — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 23:46:31 +0000

a baby is not a shirt that you just loan out for a few months tell your ready to wear it again. once you give your baby away your baby is gone and you have no more rights.
if you were a big enough girl to get pregnant and then you have 9 months to get on your feet what do you need a few more months for anyway?
but since you do think you need more time don’t you think you should be adult enough to just say i cant do this and give that baby to some one who is on there feet who is dying for a baby and is adult enough to be on there feet? if they can afford the outrageous costs of adoption then they should be financially stable enough to care for the baby and if you have any mothers intuition you should realize that, a happy stable home that can support the baby is the best place for them. sexy mama of 1

By: Carissa Neher

Carissa Neher — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 03:35:28 +0000

you either keep the baby or dont. you cant ship them off somewhere just for convenience. a child is a full responsibility all the time. Carissa Neher

By: Ella

Ella — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 01:20:43 +0000

if you give it up for adoption you cant get your baby back your given it away to another family you cant just take it back so if you dont think you can love your baby but if you dont think you can handle a baby just yet and you want to get on ur feet u use a foster agencie so you can get your baby back when you are back on your feet Ella

By: becca

becca — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 19:36:35 +0000

You would go through a foster agency.
If you go through an adoption agency then your baby would no longer be yours and you wouldn’t be able to get him/her back.
My parents used to work at a foster agency and they would sometimes get kids whose parents put them in there until they were on their feet again.
It’s a great thing to consider so that you can properly provide for your baby. becca

By: Skibabe

Skibabe — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 12:59:33 +0000

You wouldn’t be able to adopt out on such a short-term basis. Best if you talk to your local social security agency about possible fostering.

Or is there a trusted relative who could help you out? Is there really no way you could have your baby with you those first 2 months? Maybe with more info about what’s up and what you need to get on your feet, it’s hard to help more. But definitely start with social services and/or your doctor. Good luck, hope everything works out. Skibabe

By: William

William — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 23:00:45 +0000

You can’t do that. Foster care is for parents who neglect or abuse their children and once children are taken from you, you need to prove you are a fit parent. Adoption is for parents who terminate their parental rights, it is a permanent decision.
If you want to keep your baby and you need outside assistance, you should check out government assistance programs. William

By: hesperias_witch

hesperias_witch — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 15:13:12 +0000

Do adoption..you can even do an open adoption where you can chose the family and have some ties… Please please do not use the foster care system….an attorney for an adoption will help you with expenses… Good luck… hesperias_witch

By: Due 3/17/10 with Arianna

Due 3/17/10 with Arianna — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:30:30 +0000

You can’t give away a baby and then take it back. I think you should just adopt, you don’t sound mature enough to have a kid. Due 3/17/10 with Arianna

By: LaFleur

LaFleur — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 20:11:44 +0000

Once you give away your child, you give up all your parental rights. LaFleur

By: Sam

Sam — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 04:19:00 +0000

think about it u give ur baby to a orphanige and he/she grows up thinking she is unloved and
will probaly be depressed or u can get a abortian and help many disabled people Sam