i MIGHT be pregnant, and my mom wants me to either abort or put the baby up for adoption, what do i do?
Monique asked:
im scared, because im not 100% sure that i am or not, me & my bf used protection, but i really think the condom ripped. i can’t tell if i am pregnant or not yet, because this only happened on tuesday, but i told my mom & she wants me to either abort or put the baby up for adoption. i don’t want to do either of those….ugh i don’t know what to do. hellppp:(
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im scared, because im not 100% sure that i am or not, me & my bf used protection, but i really think the condom ripped. i can’t tell if i am pregnant or not yet, because this only happened on tuesday, but i told my mom & she wants me to either abort or put the baby up for adoption. i don’t want to do either of those….ugh i don’t know what to do. hellppp:(
September 25th, 2009 at 8:32 am
i’d not worry too much about it hunny until the day of ur period comes. it’s good you have an open relationship with ur mom and told her but I would also ask her to put u on the pill if you’re not preg. and if you are, the decision is yours to keep it, abort it, or put up for adoption. nobody can make that decision but you. good luck and keep ur head up! http://www.businessbrokersguide.com/stock-business-broker.htm
September 28th, 2009 at 7:25 am
At this point you don’t need to do anything. Especially not stress yourself out about something that hasn’t even happened yet. You’ll need to wait about four weeks to be able to take a home pregnancy test and get an accurate result. Use that time to decide what you will do if you are in fact pregnant. http://www.namingmybaby.com/unique-baby-boy-name.htm
September 30th, 2009 at 1:02 am
you do not even know you are pregnant.
Relax, take a test when you miss your period. If it is positive, you can worry about what to do?
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October 3rd, 2009 at 6:18 am
Well for one thing there’s no use in stressing about it right now…You dont even know if you are or not. I mean the condom either ripped or it didn’t…Right now its a waiting game to see if you miss your period. http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=Osteoporosis
October 6th, 2009 at 9:49 am
You need to figure out if your pregnant or not first! You need to wait and see if you miss your next period and then think about what to do. If you are stressin about this now your period might be late because of the stress. Take your mind off it. But if you are pregnant…I would not recommend abortion. Give your child a good life! http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=Toothpaste
October 6th, 2009 at 10:41 am
Move out and get a job, that way you can do what you want. If you made the baby, YOU pay for the baby…simple as that. Why should you mom have to pay for YOU having sex, SHE KNOWS what is going to happen to her if you are pregnant and have that baby, you will be dumping the baby on her to babysit all the time….and financially it will hurt her too, why should she pay? You are living at home and want to act all grown up having sex, but not old enough to get a job, move and pay your own way. http://www.felinehealthguide.com/feline-fip.htm
October 8th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
If it only happened on Tuesday, why don’t you go and get Plan B? http://www.legaldot.net/law/bankruptcy/types-of-personal-bankruptcy.htm
October 12th, 2009 at 1:08 am
No offense to ur mother but it is ur body and ur baby. She cannot make you do anything you do not want to do. Abortion is killing an innocent life. I am pregnant and I could never imagine killing this little life inside of me. She has her own personality already. She hates it when I slouch over and when I try to lay on my belly. Or when I eat mussels. lol. It is a baby not just a blob.
If you are unable to care for the baby I say adoption, but abortion should never be a option. I will pray that you make the right choice. If you want to keep your baby keep it. It is your baby and no one can make you give your baby up! http://www.doggydisease.com/dog-condition-disease.htm
October 12th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
i wouldnt stress about it until you miss your period & take a test & see the positive result.
after that the decision is yours & your gonna have to come up with plans for the near & distant future. goodluck. http://www.proofficesupply.com/computer-desk-furniture-office-supply.htm
October 16th, 2009 at 3:43 am
If it happened on Tuesday then you can go and get the morning after pill. It’s not an abortion pill, it’s just oral contraceptive in a higher dose. You should also go to your doctor or to planned parenthood to get on birth control. This way you wont have to worry about actually going through this again. http://www.resumeminers.com/About.htm
October 19th, 2009 at 7:50 am
Whatever YOU want. This would be your baby, not your mom’s. http://www.safedebthelp.com/debt-help-online.htm
October 21st, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Go to a Doctor first and find out for sure if you are before anyone makes any drastic decisions. Then, if you are do what you want to do. This will be your baby and your choice in what you want to do. I wish you the best :). http://www.namingmybaby.com/black-baby-name.htm
October 24th, 2009 at 3:47 am
don’t worry your self to much until you know for sure. but if you are don’t let your mom manipulate you, no matter how much she may dislike it this is one choice she DOES NOT have Control over. I feel very strongly about this because I watched my brother in law lose his child because his girl friends mom made her believe she didn’t have a choice. http://www.proofficesupply.com/office-personalized-supply.htm
October 25th, 2009 at 8:02 am
dont worry to much until u find out, but always give for adoption because there is a family who cant make kids and they want a child and you can give them a precious gift
answer mine thnks
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October 26th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
When I got pregnant my mom wanted me to do the same thing!!! I said no and I wanted to keep the baby so I did… and now she loves him sooo much and is so happy to be a grandmother
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Do whatever feels right to you… if you are pregnant and decide to keep the baby then keep it !!! It will be well worth it
October 27th, 2009 at 1:32 am
Have you missed a period? If you haven’t or even if you have (up to 4 weeks late) you can use Vitamin C to provoke your period. If you have questions about this, email me; I have used this method many times before and it has always worked.
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October 29th, 2009 at 4:14 pm
hi,
I think the best thing for you right now is to try and sit down with your mother and a counselor or someone else who can mediate . You should probable go to the doctor to find out for sure. I don’t know how old you are but both you and your mother need to do what is best by the baby. If you are not pregnant then if you are going to be sexual active find another form of birth control added with your bf wearing a condom. Please be careful and good luck http://www.bestdrumshop.com/concert-percussion-84985
October 30th, 2009 at 6:57 am
Adoption! Adoption is the answer for every problem! http://www.ihearclear.com/cheap-hearing-aids.htm