I want another baby.problem is I’m single?


baby adoption problem
Scarlet asked:


I’m 20, have a wedding planning buisness and have a 3 1/2 year old daughter that is my world. But now that she’s getting older and her being kind of lonely, I want to have another baby. I know I can support two kids, I make enough money, my house is big enough.

The problem? I’m a single mom. My baby’s daddy isn’t in her life and doesn’t pay CS, which is fine with me.

I don’t meet ANY requirements for adoption, I’ve checked.

Should I do a sperm donor? Or should I do the surgote mother? I actually have already gotten information on that.

Please help!
I can’t adopt because I’m WAY too young.
I saw Baby Mama too….but that doesn’t mean you can just label every surogate mom!
I’m not wanting this baby out of selfishness. I want another baby to love and care for and I also want my daughter to have a sibling. It can be both,

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11 Responses to “I want another baby.problem is I’m single?”

  1. Ben's Mommy Says:

    Sperm Donor Ben’s Mommy

  2. Mikkfinn Says:

    I’ll go halves with you on another! Mikkfinn

  3. *Just* Says:

    Why can’t you adopt? But maybe the sperm bank is the way to go right now. Good Luck *Just*

  4. Marisol B Says:

    sperm donor Marisol B

  5. He is here...my son is here! Says:

    try the sperm bank..if that don;t work then maybe try adopting. He is here…my son is here!

  6. nmoonglow88 Says:

    sperm donor nmoonglow88

  7. Borayda Says:

    I dont understand why people think children can come into the world as an item. It is better to have a child is a stable relationship, a family, having a child for the sake of your own loneliness is selfish. Yes raising a child alone is fine, as it is unavoidable is things are not working in a relationship and I have huge respect for single mothers and couples alike, but little respect for those wanting a child to fill a void in there own lives. Borayda

  8. nay-nay Says:

    umm, use the sperm donor, cause i’ve seen that movie baby mama nay-nay

  9. Perspiciens Says:

    sperm donor or surrogate. which ever you feel the most comfortable with. Perspiciens

  10. justawife Says:

    do the sperm donor I think this would be best because then your daughter can watch your tummy grow and in a sense be involved with the whole process beging to birth as well as it will give her time to adjust to the baby . Being pregnant is a wonderful experience why not enjoy it .There is no reason why you shouldnt have another baby it sounds as though you thought it through very thourly and can provide a baby everything he /or she could need . plus the dedication to your first is evident . GOOD LUCK i hope you the best in your life justawife

  11. ewganhoff Says:

    Find a good man. Single parent families are known to be detrimental to a child’s sociological development. How are the children supposed to learn what it is to be a male in the household and in society? They might grow up thinking that this situation is typical. Sadly, it is becoming that way, but surely it’s plain to see that this isn’t ideal.

    My GF and I have agreed that once we have kids that’s it. We’re stuck together for the next 18 years whether we like it or not. I went through my parents divorce as a kid and it wasn’t good. I won’t do that to my kids.

    A big house and enough money do not a great home environment make.

    Single parent families are are a negative consequence of the failure of the parents to act responsibly and always in the best interests of the child. ewganhoff

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