if for some reason you were in a unforeseen situation and had to choose to give your baby up for adoption or?


baby adoption
due july 28th with baby girl asked:


have an abortion which one do you think you would do? Just curious after reading an article in the paper.

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10 Responses to “if for some reason you were in a unforeseen situation and had to choose to give your baby up for adoption or?”

  1. Alex Johan Hjalmar SkarsgÄrd Says:

    I’d give the baby up for adoption; cause I think abortion is the same as killing your own flesh and blood.

  2. Trisha S Says:

    I agree with Alex

  3. Ray Says:

    Definitely adoption.
    My baby would still deserve to live. I’d feel guilty about having to give her/him up for adoption but I’d feel more guilty for killing my baby.

  4. Leah Says:

    That’s a really hard decision to have to make. It would be extremely painful to carry to child for 9 months just to give it up at the end, but I’m also firmly against abortion except for in extreme circumstances.

    I would probably suck it up and give the baby up for adoption. I would be super depressed, but at least I would be able to look at myself in the mirror and know I did the right thing for the baby.

  5. my Brooklyn Marie due 5/18/09 Says:

    i’d want to put her in a foster system ( i have an aunt and uncle who take foster kids) so i could still visit her and then eventually get her back.

  6. Landyn's Momma <3 Says:

    Hmmm…give the baby to a family that would be able to raise him/her and care for him/her or kill it? That shouldn’t even be a question.

  7. missbeans Says:

    Adoption. A person shouldn’t have to die because it is more convenient. I find it really bizarre how some people say they would have an abortion because adoption is so hard…it’s easier to kill someone?

  8. whinie_p Says:

    That would really depend on what that unforeseen circumstance was. Does the circumstance not allow me to keep the baby? I don’t see myself ever doing either adoption or abortion.

  9. #1 due in July 28 Says:

    Depends on the situation:

    Rape or any violent situation: Abortion and my reason for it,, I do not want my child to know that he can from a rapist or his grandpa

    Any other situation: adoption!

  10. R C Says:

    Ever hear the story about the two women who both told the king that the baby was theirs? The king, not knowing how to solve it, told them he’d split the baby in half and they could each have half. The one woman was ok with it and the other immediately let go of the baby and said the other could take it, she’d rather her baby be raised by someone else than see it dead. And that’s how the king knew who the real mother was.

    I would choose adoption.

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