If you could not put a baby up for adoption what would you do?
BeautifulFairy asked:
if you did not want you’re baby because of different reasons say rape/incest/something wrong with the baby or it would kill you to have a baby would u have an abortion?
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if you did not want you’re baby because of different reasons say rape/incest/something wrong with the baby or it would kill you to have a baby would u have an abortion?
October 30th, 2009 at 9:04 am
i couldn’t do it. it’s a hard decision for people but i couldnt look at myself period. trlprkprincess
November 1st, 2009 at 5:18 am
sell it on ebay missiemooz
November 1st, 2009 at 9:20 pm
If it was rape or incest I would give it up! If I foumd that it had something wrong ( Downs, ETC) I would have an abortion! Napa Valley Woman :0)
November 4th, 2009 at 7:32 pm
if i was raped or it was incest which wud b rape anyway coz i ain’t sick enough to have se with a family member and non of my family wud rape me in the first place i wud abort it if i could not adopt it out dreeamer86
November 8th, 2009 at 6:05 am
Once again abortion is a personal choice.
How many children are bought into this world who are not loved/abused/neglected? A small amount of these children get adopted, but at what cost to them? What have they already been through?
There are already too many unloved and lost children in this world already. udgula26
November 10th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
NO IT IS NOT UP TO ANYONE TO GIVE UP THERE CHILD YOU LOVE THAT CHILD NO MATTER WHAT IF YOU BEEN RAPED/OR GOT HURT IN THAT TYPE OFWAY YOU STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF & THE CHILD AND GIVE IT TO GOD BECAUSE ONLY HE CAN WALK THRU THE FIRE AND HE WILL WALK WITH YOU ALONG THE WAY IF YOU HAVE FAITH BUT NO MATTER WHAT NEVER WALK WITH YOUR HEAD DOWN KEEP IT UP SOME PEOPLE THINK IT IS EASY TO GIVE UP A CHILD BUT I TELL YOU NOTHING CAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND A CHILD I HOPE I ANSWERED IT AND IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO SEND ME A MESSAGE FROM YAHOO MESSANGER OK PEACE shaved_lisa22
November 11th, 2009 at 11:37 am
I don’t think any one can answer that one without being there. As an OB/GYn I never thought I would advocate abortion but when a dear friends daughter was molested by a young man and became pregnant without penetration, I couldn’t say what I would do if it were my daughter or if she were younger. The one time when I actually ended the life of a baby was to save the life of a young woman with cervical cancer. Her only chance to survive was a hysterectomy and she had 2 other children and a husband she adores. She believes the baby was the only way she was kept from dying because it was the only reason she went to see the doctor. Fetal anomalies that are not compatible with life fortunately are rare and it is hard to justify keeping a woman pregnant until spontaneous delivery in that situation. I don’t think anyone can say what they would do without being there themselves. pbcccm
November 13th, 2009 at 5:05 am
What is it with this “no adoption” thing?
No. No. No. I answered this one before too. No, i would not abort if I got pregnant out of rape or incest. Not the babies fault. But some women can’t handle it, so it is good they have the option.
If it would kill me to have the baby, I would consider it and all the factors in my life, and may consider abortion. Again, it is good it is an option in these cases.
But why outlaw adoption? It is a good option, and helps connect loving people with babies that need homes. And why outlaw abortion? For rape, incest and baby or mothers health, it can also be a beneficial option. I think it should be more regulated, stricter, but still legal. strwbrry_gal
November 16th, 2009 at 2:38 pm
ask someone in your family if they can help you out till you get back on your feet john_mendonca2003
November 19th, 2009 at 6:54 am
You’ve already asked this question about five times, you stupid girl, and I’ve answered it twice. I’m still disgusted with your statement that adoption is wrong and abortion is a better option, so I’m pulling no punches here.
GET OFF this site. This is for pregnant women who are obviously planning on staying pregnant. Use what little intelligence you have and choose a more appropriate site. This is not a question about prenancy in case you are too dense to figure that out on your own. GET OFF!!!!!!!
John Mendonc, she is not in this situation. She is thinks she has a really great argument to sway people who don’t see things the way she does and she has posted this same question about 5 or 6 times in the last few hours because she isn’t getting the answers she wants. Check it out. She has a post where she accuses people who believe in adoption but not in abortion of being hypocritical. She says that abortion is good, but adoption is wrong. And she says she is pro-choice. How is that pro-choice. She’s too ignorant to see that she is the one who is being hypocritical. tianjingabi
November 22nd, 2009 at 1:30 pm
yes, I would. I would not bring a child into the world under such unfortunate circumstances. It’s not fair. txcowgirl
November 23rd, 2009 at 2:50 pm
At this point in my life… no I wouldn’t have an abortion. I might spend the rest of my life planning on murdering the creep that raped me. Or torturing and then killing him. So that might even out.
BTW, I’m not being sarcastic. I’m serious.
If something was wrong with the baby, I also probably wouldn’t get an abortion… because I think my husband and I could take care of it. If, however, my own life (it’s more common than people realize) was threatened by being pregnant… I probably would get the abortion as early in the pregnancy as possible. Aeris
November 23rd, 2009 at 6:01 pm
Abortion is wrong. Even if the kid is handicap. I have two children with some physical diformities and behavioral issues. If you cant handle it give it to a family that can. Are you afraid of the labor pain? Is that why u want an abortion? Plz reconsider this. Some adoption agencies will pay for all the expenses including room and board. Audrey