Comments on: If you decide to give a baby up for adoption? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/ Thu, 17 May 2012 20:39:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: nancy_uhde http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5462 nancy_uhde Sat, 24 Oct 2009 06:39:16 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5462 > http://www.ihearclear.com/bone-anchored-hearing-aid.htm > http://www.ihearclear.com/bone-anchored-hearing-aid.htm

]]> By: mel http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5461 mel Sat, 24 Oct 2009 05:09:26 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5461 I don't care how unpopular this comment is... if your friend wants to give the baby up, he/she should do it ASAP. Why? Because that baby is bonding to his current parent right now. This is not about your friend, this is about a BABY. When you take a baby/child away from its security blanket the adjustment is harder and harder the longer you wait. It's bonding to the person who has it. The baby is secure and probably happy. The longer you wait, the more traumatic this is going to be. Some people care only about themselves, and not about the innocent child's best interest. That's really sad. For all of the people who are saying that the person should keep this baby as long as they want, shame on you for being so selfish. I'm sure it will be very hard to give up the baby, but they've already made up their mind. Let the baby go to a stable situation with people that will love it and care for it, and not pass it around. Think about it. This is about the BABY, not about the birth parent. http://www.resumeminers.com/home-business.htm I don’t care how unpopular this comment is… if your friend wants to give the baby up, he/she should do it ASAP. Why? Because that baby is bonding to his current parent right now. This is not about your friend, this is about a BABY. When you take a baby/child away from its security blanket the adjustment is harder and harder the longer you wait. It’s bonding to the person who has it. The baby is secure and probably happy.

The longer you wait, the more traumatic this is going to be. Some people care only about themselves, and not about the innocent child’s best interest. That’s really sad.

For all of the people who are saying that the person should keep this baby as long as they want, shame on you for being so selfish. I’m sure it will be very hard to give up the baby, but they’ve already made up their mind. Let the baby go to a stable situation with people that will love it and care for it, and not pass it around.

Think about it. This is about the BABY, not about the birth parent. http://www.resumeminers.com/home-business.htm

]]> By: Miss Kitty http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5460 Miss Kitty Fri, 23 Oct 2009 03:54:49 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5460 Hey i kept my daughter for 2 weeks before i did the placement with the adoptive parents. It all depends on the adoption agency. I would of kept her longer if i could, but then i would have been to attched. If the agency lets her and she is going to be okay with keeping the child that long then i dont see why not, but if she doesnt want to get attached its best to do the placement now. http://www.doggydisease.com/dog-condition-disease.htm Hey i kept my daughter for 2 weeks before i did the placement with the adoptive parents. It all depends on the adoption agency. I would of kept her longer if i could, but then i would have been to attched. If the agency lets her and she is going to be okay with keeping the child that long then i dont see why not, but if she doesnt want to get attached its best to do the placement now. http://www.doggydisease.com/dog-condition-disease.htm

]]> By: Heather B http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5459 Heather B Mon, 19 Oct 2009 23:37:04 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5459 The mother of the baby decides how long she wants with her baby, not the potential adoptive parents! The mother can keep her baby as long as she wants to http://www.resumeminers.com/Job-Search-Sites.htm The mother of the baby decides how long she wants with her baby, not the potential adoptive parents!

The mother can keep her baby as long as she wants to http://www.resumeminers.com/Job-Search-Sites.htm

]]> By: Adopted Jane http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5458 Adopted Jane Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:27:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5458 Why does she want to wait 99 days ? that is just going to be PURE Torture on her and more importantly that baby when it comes to separation To read this breaks my heart more than reading about others giving their baby up straight away and that breaks my heart enough as it is Especially if she is going to breast feed the baby for those 99 days 3mths to bond with baby and then give the baby up ? Tell her to keep the baby for 99days infinity :) she will be far happier and so will the baby http://www.myislandholiday.com/greek-island-vacation.htm Why does she want to wait 99 days ? that is just going to be PURE Torture on her and more importantly that baby when it comes to separation
To read this breaks my heart more than reading about others giving their baby up straight away and that breaks my heart enough as it is
Especially if she is going to breast feed the baby for those 99 days
3mths to bond with baby and then give the baby up ?

Tell her to keep the baby for 99days infinity :) she will be far happier and so will the baby http://www.myislandholiday.com/greek-island-vacation.htm

]]> By: bouiver http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5457 bouiver Sun, 18 Oct 2009 07:10:55 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5457 i have a hard time answering this i would keep my child even if my wife leaves children telling you they love you breaks your heart and if you cant support the child then give him up for adoption but if you can afford please keep him you will not regret it in the end i didnt want kids at all i love my daugther and have another kid on the way what ever way you decide may god be with you and good luck i hope he gets good parents http://www.ihearclear.com/BAHA-hearing-aids.htm i have a hard time answering this i would keep my child even if my wife leaves children telling you they love you breaks your heart and if you cant support the child then give him up for adoption but if you can afford please keep him you will not regret it in the end i didnt want kids at all i love my daugther and have another kid on the way what ever way you decide may god be with you and good luck i hope he gets good parents http://www.ihearclear.com/BAHA-hearing-aids.htm

]]> By: cruzgirlz3 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5456 cruzgirlz3 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 23:39:37 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5456 It sounds like maybe your friend is having second thoughts. She should keep her baby until she makes a decision she is at peace with. The fact she wants 99 days? I don't know, but it suggests she may not be at peace with this decision and she should take her time. http://www.resumeminers.com/universities/construction-trades-degree.htm It sounds like maybe your friend is having second thoughts. She should keep her baby until she makes a decision she is at peace with. The fact she wants 99 days? I don’t know, but it suggests she may not be at peace with this decision and she should take her time. http://www.resumeminers.com/universities/construction-trades-degree.htm

]]> By: carlaz http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5455 carlaz Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:29:50 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5455 that is the most stupid thing ive ever heard...if she wanted to give him up why keep him for 3 more months? sounds to me like your friend is an idiot and shouldnt have reproduced to begin with... http://www.supersportsstore.com that is the most stupid thing ive ever heard…if she wanted to give him up why keep him for 3 more months? sounds to me like your friend is an idiot and shouldnt have reproduced to begin with… http://www.supersportsstore.com

]]> By: Michelle http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5454 Michelle Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:16:13 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5454 Unless the baby is already given to the parents, you can keep the baby as long as you want it's illegal for the adoptive parents to take the baby without consent but they have every right to walk away from the adoption just like your friend. Just some advice, emotions are going to be extremly high on all sides so just be considerate of all parties involved. If your friend is set in adoption then get it over with, no reason to draw back on it unless you are deciding to go back on the adoption, in that case tell the adopting parents, they have every right to know. http://www.englishoverseas.com/teach-english/teach-english-spain.htm Unless the baby is already given to the parents, you can keep the baby as long as you want it’s illegal for the adoptive parents to take the baby without consent but they have every right to walk away from the adoption just like your friend. Just some advice, emotions are going to be extremly high on all sides so just be considerate of all parties involved. If your friend is set in adoption then get it over with, no reason to draw back on it unless you are deciding to go back on the adoption, in that case tell the adopting parents, they have every right to know. http://www.englishoverseas.com/teach-english/teach-english-spain.htm

]]> By: Ghost Writer Rides Again http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-5453 Ghost Writer Rides Again Fri, 09 Oct 2009 01:19:00 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/if-you-decide-to-give-a-baby-up-for-adoption/#comment-5453 As long as your friend has not signed the relinquishment papers (pre-birth papers are not legally binding), she can hang on to her baby as long as she feels neccessary. She clearly is not sure about relinquishment. She should raise her baby. http://www.currencyexchangemarket.com/currency-exchange-rate.htm As long as your friend has not signed the relinquishment papers (pre-birth papers are not legally binding), she can hang on to her baby as long as she feels neccessary. She clearly is not sure about relinquishment. She should raise her baby. http://www.currencyexchangemarket.com/currency-exchange-rate.htm

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