Comments on: If you got pregnant or got your girlfriend pregnant would you give the baby up for an open adoption?

By: Aussie Dad

Aussie Dad — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 01:11:20 +0000

When my girlfriend got pregnant we kept our daughter. I could never put my little girl up for adaption.

By: Mimi

Mimi — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 14:59:52 +0000

It would be my first born! I cant imagine ever giving the baby up. I would definately keep it!

By: Emma M

Emma M — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 01:04:17 +0000

i dont think id be able to.. id probably get too conected to give her up

By: Trinity

Trinity — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 09:05:43 +0000

I’m 17 and if I got pregnant now I’d keep the baby. I couldn’t handle having someone else raise my child even if I could see them. It would hurt to see my child call someone else mommy. I would just work really hard to provide my child w/ a great life. Being a young mom doesn’t mean you’re a bad mom. You can be a great mom and be young.

By: DoñaParaguas

DoñaParaguas — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 14:31:00 +0000

i know i couldnt do that it would break my heart to have someone else raise my child.

By: l0VE PiNk!!

l0VE PiNk!! — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 06:14:42 +0000

I would keep it bcuz I would live up to my responbility.

By: Sian B

Sian B — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:35:54 +0000

If i got pregnant i wouldn’t give my baby up.
i am 13 but its a baby…My baby…growing inside me. if i just gave it up like that i would feel terrible after carrying it for so long inside of me.
Maybe some people wouldn’t be able to cope being young or whatever, an open adoption don’t sound too bad though, but all i can say is i wouldn’t be able to give up a baby no matter what.

xx hope i helped. x

By: Kassidy

Kassidy — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:12:43 +0000

It’s funny my friends slept over last night, and we were thinking about this. Right now, if we got pregnant (all almost 14) what we would do with the baby. I personally would keep him/her and try my hardest to raise the child the best possible. If it was an adoption, open would probably be my choice. Hey, if you couldn’t be the mother, at least be important in their life.

By: BC~2012

BC~2012 — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 06:25:16 +0000

I don’t know what I would do. That’s such a tough question. If I did decided to continue the pregnancy, I would either choose to keep it and have my parents help me while I finished college (although I see this as rather selfish) or give the baby up for closed adoption. I don’t think I would be able to handle the conditions of open adoptions. It would be weird to see someone else raising my child and knowing I had know say in it.

Again, this is a tough question. And that’s why I’m not going to get pregnant until after college!

By: It's A Girl: 10/10/08

It's A Girl: 10/10/08 — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 10:05:44 +0000

I would raise the child even if I was teen, and give the guy the option of being in the child’s life. I also had a good support system too while growing up, and I think it’s a choice you and your bf have to make.