im 21 and 30 weeks pregnant and i want to put baby up for adoption because i didnt get an abortion and now?
Bloom B asked:
and now i cant do it , my mind is telling me its the best thing for her but my heart says no ! i dont have a job and neither does the fahter … he got 2 kids by 2 diff woman and dosnt live in his own place.. i live with roomates and my family dosnt live in America … i dont know what to do !
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and now i cant do it , my mind is telling me its the best thing for her but my heart says no ! i dont have a job and neither does the fahter … he got 2 kids by 2 diff woman and dosnt live in his own place.. i live with roomates and my family dosnt live in America … i dont know what to do !
January 4th, 2010 at 9:19 pm
google.com and search for adoptions agencies in your area, they can talk to you and help you figure it all out…Thanks for saving your babies life! frogettx4
January 5th, 2010 at 6:29 pm
there is always government help hun, there is welfare, WIC (food stamps), Medicaid to provide the health insurance for ur baby, etc. all u have to do is go to welfare department and ask them for help. also, once u give birth, i’m sure u’ll be able to find a job, it’s easier to find a job when u have a child to support, most of the places will hire u trying to help u out. just make sure not to drag ur b/f along too, make sure u take care of urself and ur baby, don’t worry bout him. ♥Ðue May 4th • ßaby Girl♥
January 5th, 2010 at 8:04 pm
if i were you i’d keep her because i’m not strong enouph to give my baby up. but i think you should do what i can’t and put her up for adoption because it’s the best for her. you should look for a couple you trust and who will agree to an open adoption so she’s still your daughter but she’s raised by people you trust and who can afford to have her. and you can see her as you want. Baby boy #1 due April 7th 2009
January 7th, 2010 at 12:36 pm
Such a delicate situation and I hope that you can find compassionate and supportive help outside of just the Internet. My only experience is with having my own 2 children and 1 on the way. I can tell you that though the bond to our children incredible - so is the challenge that it adds to all aspects of life. All I am trying to say is that it isn’t easy and you sound like you already know that. Even with all of my “ducks in a row”, I still felt a lot of stress at times. I don’t feel comfortable telling you what you should do - but it is wonderful that a new life is inside you and will be born in less than 20 weeks! You have lots of time to think this through and seek help. There are lots of different adoption arrangements these days. Personally, I think that a person would understand your choice if they grew up and found out they were adopted. Again, no expert here. I almost think this topic is TOO BIG for this forum. I do wish you all the best. A baby is a gift and a blessing to the Earth. What you choose to do now will affect the life and experiences that he or she has. I don’t think that adoption is a bad thing.
All the best to you. Kelkat