Comments on: im confused, if u put ur baby into adoption, do u get the money? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/ Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:25:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: alexis88883 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6867 alexis88883 Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:54:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6867 It is illegal to sell a baby. So, no the mother does not get money for the baby. Sometimes in private adoptions, the expenses are paid by the adoptive parents for medial etc.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/student-loans/types-of-student-loans.htm"> alexis88883</a> It is illegal to sell a baby. So, no the mother does not get money for the baby. Sometimes in private adoptions, the expenses are paid by the adoptive parents for medial etc. alexis88883

]]> By: cmc http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6866 cmc Tue, 16 Feb 2010 02:27:54 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6866 with domestic adoption in the US you can get some $ to help with pregnancy related expenses - but it really isn't much. Certainly not an incentive for something so difficult. All money should go through an agency or lawyer, and laws on what is allowed differ by state. Most of the money involved in adoption goes to various lawyers and agencies. We paid a few hundred dollars to my daughter's first mom for some living expenses and bought her, a plane ticket, and paid some medical bills (directly to the doctor). However we paid thousands to agencies in our home state and her state to get our home study done, attend classes about adoption, and process all the legal paperwork. Most newborns in the US are adopted through private agencies. You can "match" with a family before the birth, but it isn't necessary. our daughter's mom contacted us only 2 wks before the birth. If you don't do a private adoption the baby goes into foster care, which I wouldn't really recommend. I know our daughter's mom wanted her to go directly to her new family (us) and not be in a foster home. The only babies who aren't "wanted" are generally ones with serious health issues. They may end up in foster care. There aren't orphanages in the US.<a href="http://www.supersportsstore.com/backpacks-7756"> cmc</a> with domestic adoption in the US you can get some $ to help with pregnancy related expenses - but it really isn’t much. Certainly not an incentive for something so difficult. All money should go through an agency or lawyer, and laws on what is allowed differ by state. Most of the money involved in adoption goes to various lawyers and agencies. We paid a few hundred dollars to my daughter’s first mom for some living expenses and bought her, a plane ticket, and paid some medical bills (directly to the doctor). However we paid thousands to agencies in our home state and her state to get our home study done, attend classes about adoption, and process all the legal paperwork.

Most newborns in the US are adopted through private agencies. You can “match” with a family before the birth, but it isn’t necessary. our daughter’s mom contacted us only 2 wks before the birth. If you don’t do a private adoption the baby goes into foster care, which I wouldn’t really recommend. I know our daughter’s mom wanted her to go directly to her new family (us) and not be in a foster home. The only babies who aren’t “wanted” are generally ones with serious health issues. They may end up in foster care. There aren’t orphanages in the US. cmc

]]> By: Dustin http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6865 Dustin Sat, 13 Feb 2010 15:08:04 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6865 LOL at Andraya's answer... and ditto.... you don't get money. if your baby does not get adopted, it will go into foster care, we don't have orphanages in the US, and I don't know about private adoption. but, from reading your other questions, i hope to god for this kids' sake that you are getting an abortion, or adoption, because you will make a lousy parent, seriously google "free abortion clinics" in your city, please.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/online-degree/undergraduate-online-degree.htm"> Dustin</a> LOL at Andraya’s answer… and ditto….

you don’t get money. if your baby does not get adopted, it will go into foster care, we don’t have orphanages in the US, and I don’t know about private adoption.

but, from reading your other questions, i hope to god for this kids’ sake that you are getting an abortion, or adoption, because you will make a lousy parent, seriously google “free abortion clinics” in your city, please. Dustin

]]> By: USAF_Wife http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6864 USAF_Wife Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:58:18 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6864 I didn't get money for putting my first up for adoption... nor would I want money... I wanted her to have a better life...not SELL her..<a href="http://www.businessbrokersguide.com/business-loan-broker.htm"> USAF_Wife</a> I didn’t get money for putting my first up for adoption… nor would I want money… I wanted her to have a better life…not SELL her.. USAF_Wife

]]> By: kitta http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6863 kitta Wed, 10 Feb 2010 11:27:24 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6863 You can't legally sell your baby. That is a crime. If you find a person who wants to adopt your unborn baby and they offer to pay your medical bills, that may or may not be legal, depending on the state. I don't know what country you are in, so I am answering from the USA. If no one adopts the baby, which might happen if the baby had serious medical issues, the baby could be placed into foster care as a special needs child. or the child could be placed in some other type of care, depending on the problem. lawyers do private adoptions. I am disgusted that you only seem to care about money.<a href="http://www.currencyexchangemarket.com/yahoo-currency-exchange-rate.htm"> kitta</a> You can’t legally sell your baby. That is a crime.

If you find a person who wants to adopt your unborn baby and they offer to pay your medical bills, that may or may not be legal, depending on the state.

I don’t know what country you are in, so I am answering from the USA.

If no one adopts the baby, which might happen if the baby had serious medical issues, the baby could be placed into foster care as a special needs child. or the child could be placed in some other type of care, depending on the problem.

lawyers do private adoptions.

I am disgusted that you only seem to care about money. kitta

]]> By: Andraya searchin for Jay11/29/94 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6862 Andraya searchin for Jay11/29/94 Tue, 09 Feb 2010 11:31:16 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6862 Yes you get to keep the money PLUS you get a nice new home complete with a stunning new wardrobe and a new name in a number format!<a href="http://www.bigjobtools.com/srch/srch.php?q=safety"> Andraya searchin for Jay11/29/94</a> Yes you get to keep the money PLUS you get a nice new home complete with a stunning new wardrobe and a new name in a number format! Andraya searchin for Jay11/29/94

]]> By: snowwillow20 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6861 snowwillow20 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 00:00:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6861 You get nothing. The agency gets the money. The aparents get the baby. Again, you get nothing, except over whelming grief.<a href="http://bestluggageshop.com/"> snowwillow20</a> You get nothing. The agency gets the money. The aparents get the baby. Again, you get nothing, except over whelming grief. snowwillow20

]]> By: Sunny http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6860 Sunny Sun, 07 Feb 2010 16:14:30 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6860 Well, YOU wouldn't get any $$$,but the AGENCY and ATTORNEY would get plenty. You just get stitches down there, milk filled breasts, stretch marks, and a whole lotta regret and shame. It's a rotten deal.<a href="http://www.ecohomefashion.com/wood-bowls-and-platters-70"> Sunny</a> Well, YOU wouldn’t get any $$$,but the AGENCY and ATTORNEY would get plenty.

You just get stitches down there, milk filled breasts, stretch marks, and a whole lotta regret and shame.

It’s a rotten deal. Sunny

]]> By: Matthew's Momma http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6859 Matthew's Momma Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:29:39 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6859 You aren't selling the baby, you are placing the child with adoptive parents. Sometimes the agency or adoptive parents will help the Birth Mother with medical bills, housing if needed, maternity clothes etc. But you are not paid.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Job-Interview/Post-Interview-Thank-You-Notes.htm"> Matthew's Momma</a> You aren’t selling the baby, you are placing the child with adoptive parents. Sometimes the agency or adoptive parents will help the Birth Mother with medical bills, housing if needed, maternity clothes etc. But you are not paid. Matthew’s Momma

]]> By: Crystal H http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/comment-page-1/#comment-6858 Crystal H Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:54:06 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/im-confused-if-u-put-ur-baby-into-adoption-do-u-get-the-money/#comment-6858 I really seriously hope you are kidding.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/online-degree/education-programs.htm"> Crystal H</a> I really seriously hope you are kidding. Crystal H

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