Comments on: Is giving your baby up for adoption considered being self fish? thats what my mom thinks? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/ Thu, 17 May 2012 20:56:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: romeolover410 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5153 romeolover410 Wed, 07 Oct 2009 21:14:14 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5153 It is the opposite of selfish!!!!!!!! It is the opposite of selfish!!!!!!!!

]]> By: Mychildren'smom http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5152 Mychildren'smom Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:42:02 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5152 I think whether it is selfish or not depends on what the reasons are for putting the baby up for adoption. Like if you can't give the child a good life and you are putting it up for adoption because, you love it and want it to have a good life that isn't selfish. If you put a baby up for adoption because, you don't want the responsibility or want to party but, you could take care of it that is selfish. All situations are different. I think whether it is selfish or not depends on what the reasons are for putting the baby up for adoption. Like if you can’t give the child a good life and you are putting it up for adoption because, you love it and want it to have a good life that isn’t selfish. If you put a baby up for adoption because, you don’t want the responsibility or want to party but, you could take care of it that is selfish. All situations are different.

]]> By: Ferbs http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5151 Ferbs Fri, 02 Oct 2009 04:30:17 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5151 Although in some cases the decision is made out of pure selfishness (like getting in the way of parties, drinking...etc...) I think those ARE VERY RARE. Choosing adoption for your child is not usually done with selfishness because it causes so much pain and loss (from what I've read lately) that you would have to overcome your own feelings to do what you think is best for the baby. It also is a choice opposed by many surrounding the mother in question so it would be easy to cave in to their criticism (again...referring to those who criticize but won't help raise the child or adopt the baby). So...to take all that crap to stick to your decision...that's hard. So, not selfish. I am disappointed your mother is less mature than you. Good for you for thinking ahead to all the consequences of having sex, especially at a young age. Keep your principles girl...you will benefit much in life. Although in some cases the decision is made out of pure selfishness (like getting in the way of parties, drinking…etc…) I think those ARE VERY RARE.

Choosing adoption for your child is not usually done with selfishness because it causes so much pain and loss (from what I’ve read lately) that you would have to overcome your own feelings to do what you think is best for the baby.

It also is a choice opposed by many surrounding the mother in question so it would be easy to cave in to their criticism (again…referring to those who criticize but won’t help raise the child or adopt the baby). So…to take all that crap to stick to your decision…that’s hard. So, not selfish.

I am disappointed your mother is less mature than you.

Good for you for thinking ahead to all the consequences of having sex, especially at a young age. Keep your principles girl…you will benefit much in life.

]]> By: angelina a http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5150 angelina a Fri, 02 Oct 2009 03:31:46 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5150 NO ITS NOT I HAD MY DAUGHTER AT 17 AND HAD A 2 1/2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND WAS STILL IN SHCOOL I COULDT TAKE CARE OF 2 KIDS SO I PUT MY SECOND DAUGHTER UP FOR AOPTION TO MY FIRST DAUGHTERS GRANDMAS NESE AND ITS WAS A OPEN ADOPTION I SITLL SEE HER AND SHE WILL KNOW I AM HER BIRTH MOTHER THEY AREADY TOLD HER BUT SHE REALLY DOSENT UNDER STAND I DONT THINK IT WOULD BE SELFISH IF YOU GOT PG ON ACCISENT BUT THE FACT THAT YOU ARE NOT PG I THINK YOU NEED TO USE PROTECTION AND HAVE HIM WERE A CONDOM!! IF YOU KNOW YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF A BABY YOU SHOLNDT BE HAVING SEX! YOU MOTHER IS TALKING TO YOU ABOUT SEX MY MOTHER NEVER TALKED TO ME ABOUT IT SO YOU KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN YOU NEED TO BE SMART!! IAM 22 AND LOVE MY DAUGHTER TO DEATH BUT IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ALOT EASYER TO FINISH HIGH SCHOOL WITH OUT HER. THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU DO ANY THING CASEU ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENSES!! NO ITS NOT I HAD MY DAUGHTER AT 17 AND HAD A 2 1/2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND WAS STILL IN SHCOOL I COULDT TAKE CARE OF 2 KIDS SO I PUT MY SECOND DAUGHTER UP FOR AOPTION TO MY FIRST DAUGHTERS GRANDMAS NESE AND ITS WAS A OPEN ADOPTION I SITLL SEE HER AND SHE WILL KNOW I AM HER BIRTH MOTHER THEY AREADY TOLD HER BUT SHE REALLY DOSENT UNDER STAND I DONT THINK IT WOULD BE SELFISH IF YOU GOT PG ON ACCISENT BUT THE FACT THAT YOU ARE NOT PG I THINK YOU NEED TO USE PROTECTION AND HAVE HIM WERE A CONDOM!! IF YOU KNOW YOU CANT TAKE CARE OF A BABY YOU SHOLNDT BE HAVING SEX! YOU MOTHER IS TALKING TO YOU ABOUT SEX MY MOTHER NEVER TALKED TO ME ABOUT IT SO YOU KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN YOU NEED TO BE SMART!! IAM 22 AND LOVE MY DAUGHTER TO DEATH BUT IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ALOT EASYER TO FINISH HIGH SCHOOL WITH OUT HER. THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU DO ANY THING CASEU ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENSES!!

]]> By: Lauren http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5149 Lauren Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:44:15 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5149 Just assure your mum you will never be in that situation anyway!... at such a young age i doubt its considered selfish to think that, but if push came to shove and you were actually pregnant, i highly doubt you would have the same feelings about adopting your baby out. Just assure your mum you will never be in that situation anyway!… at such a young age i doubt its considered selfish to think that, but if push came to shove and you were actually pregnant, i highly doubt you would have the same feelings about adopting your baby out.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5148 Elizabeth Sun, 27 Sep 2009 14:51:27 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5148 That's totally wrong! My younger sister was 15 when she had her Son, and had to give him up for Adoption. I don't understand how your mom could think your being selfish. Your giving the baby up for both your own good, and the baby's as well. That’s totally wrong! My younger sister was 15 when she had her Son, and had to give him up for Adoption. I don’t understand how your mom could think your being selfish. Your giving the baby up for both your own good, and the baby’s as well.

]]> By: Commercials are Brainwashing http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5147 Commercials are Brainwashing Fri, 25 Sep 2009 05:55:00 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5147 Completely depends on who you ask. Someones opinion may be different based on the expecting mothers reasons for wanting to place for adoption. Best think is not to get one self in to a predicament when they are not ready for a baby even more a teenager. Completely depends on who you ask. Someones opinion may be different based on the expecting mothers reasons for wanting to place for adoption. Best think is not to get one self in to a predicament when they are not ready for a baby even more a teenager.

]]> By: sprklenshine3499 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5146 sprklenshine3499 Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:34:25 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5146 All of these people are absolutely crazy. Giving up a baby is one of the most selfless things you can do. I don't know what kind of family Serge grew up in, but I feel bad. There are so many loving, caring, stable, infertile couples out there that have to resort to adoption to start their families, and I know many of them. Giving up your child is not an easy feat, but putting your baby before yourself, especially when also helping out others is only a selfless action. I feel horrible for theses numnuts that think otherwise. Just disgusting at what some of these low lives think. All of these people are absolutely crazy. Giving up a baby is one of the most selfless things you can do. I don’t know what kind of family Serge grew up in, but I feel bad. There are so many loving, caring, stable, infertile couples out there that have to resort to adoption to start their families, and I know many of them. Giving up your child is not an easy feat, but putting your baby before yourself, especially when also helping out others is only a selfless action. I feel horrible for theses numnuts that think otherwise.

Just disgusting at what some of these low lives think.

]]> By: cherry pie :3 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5145 cherry pie :3 Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:27:26 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5145 wait...so..that justice outfit is for a 14 year old? OH NO. wait…so..that justice outfit is for a 14 year old? OH NO.

]]> By: maxine w http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/comment-page-1/#comment-5144 maxine w Thu, 17 Sep 2009 20:19:57 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/is-giving-your-baby-up-for-adoption-considered-being-self-fish-thats-what-my-mom-thinks/#comment-5144 thats wat u get for spreadin ur legs at 14 thats wat u get for spreadin ur legs at 14

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