Is ther anyway to place your baby up for adoption without your husbands signiture?
Joshy’s Mommy asked:
While living in New York State.
She never wanted this baby. She found out too late. Her husband doen’t even help with the other twi kids, all he does is work. I dont know the whole story, I just know she feels like it’s the rfight thing, her husband feels differently though =/
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While living in New York State.
She never wanted this baby. She found out too late. Her husband doen’t even help with the other twi kids, all he does is work. I dont know the whole story, I just know she feels like it’s the rfight thing, her husband feels differently though =/
July 29th, 2009 at 2:59 am
no because its his child also so he has a say so
July 29th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Absolutely not. Thank beejeezus for that!
July 31st, 2009 at 3:37 am
The internet baby black market.
Legally? No.
August 2nd, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Not without committing fraud and jeopardizing the legality of the adoption.
August 2nd, 2009 at 5:22 pm
Fraud and kidnapping charges? Is that what you are willing to face?
Why don’t you want your husband to raise the child?
More details and I will give you a better answer.
ETA: If she is unhappy being married and having a third child she should leave her husband and after birth he should either take custody or sign relinquishment papers. I bet that he will figure out a way to keep and raise his baby.
Being a wife is optional she can leave him but she can’t take his baby and place it for adoption without his consent. She CAN refuse to parent the child. Lots of men don’t mind raising their children.
August 4th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
both parents must agree. So the answers no.
i am so tired of people who are trying to find ways to be deceitful. Stop it.
August 5th, 2009 at 5:28 am
No. It is not possible and unlike unmarried men, he could easily overturn the adoption because the adoption agency can’t pretend he doesn’t exist.
August 5th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
No and there never should be. Whether she wants the baby or not, it isn’t only her decision. Her unborn child deserves so much more than a deceitful, lying adoption process just to get her baby into the next couples hands.
August 7th, 2009 at 1:50 am
we were talking to a pregnant woman in california, and the husband wasn’t supporting adoption - our agency told us that is probably couldn’t happen unless he signed. She was separated from him, and he was abusive. In the end she decided to parent, so we didn’t follow through with it.
August 7th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Not legally or ethically.
August 10th, 2009 at 12:00 am
No she can’t. He has as much legal right to this child as she does..
August 13th, 2009 at 12:18 am
No she cannot!
Perhaps suggest couples counselling to her
August 13th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Not unless she can prove he is unfit.