Comments on: My little sister(13yrs old)just had a baby.My mom wants2keep it,i think adoption,how about u?How do i sway her http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 22:02:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Xmas Elf http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6494 Xmas Elf Sat, 27 Feb 2010 06:29:21 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6494 You are very correct! Adoption is perfect. Sway your mother with the argument that a baby with two YOUNG parents that only focus on her and have a whole life ahead of them is better than a having only a 13 year old mother. Please! Would a child want to know that her mother was a disgrace to all women and had a child at souch a young age???<a href="http://www.telescopebuyingguide.com/reflector-telescope.htm"> Xmas Elf</a> You are very correct! Adoption is perfect. Sway your mother with the argument that a baby with two YOUNG parents that only focus on her and have a whole life ahead of them is better than a having only a 13 year old mother. Please! Would a child want to know that her mother was a disgrace to all women and had a child at souch a young age??? Xmas Elf

]]> By: baddrose268 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6493 baddrose268 Wed, 24 Feb 2010 11:09:03 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6493 It's not your baby and not your decision to make. If your mom wants your sister to keep the baby than she has to listen to her mother as she is a minor. It seems your sister will have lots of support from your mom in raising the child. Not all teen moms get that. Most of them get thrown out of the house. She should be grateful that her mom didn't force her to have an abortion. She can do it. There are lots of welfare programs she can get on.<a href="http://www.proofficesupply.com/dallas-office-supply.htm"> baddrose268</a> It’s not your baby and not your decision to make. If your mom wants your sister to keep the baby than she has to listen to her mother as she is a minor. It seems your sister will have lots of support from your mom in raising the child. Not all teen moms get that. Most of them get thrown out of the house. She should be grateful that her mom didn’t force her to have an abortion. She can do it. There are lots of welfare programs she can get on. baddrose268

]]> By: cattys_cats http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6492 cattys_cats Sun, 21 Feb 2010 15:48:13 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6492 wow. 8. thats a lot of people to feed. do you even have room in the house? I think that your mom adopting your niece/nephew is a a good idea...its just that the family is big enough already. I think it should go up for adoption. Give it to a family that will love it just as much as you guys do. Try to stay in touch with that family, if it eases the pain. Still, your mom seems persistent in keeping her grandchild. If your sister does in fact keep it, she should condiser applying for WIC or an organization that will help her raise her baby. She should even take a few teen pregnancy classes--kind of like counseling for teen parents. I think its very nice that you care for your sister. Good luck n God bless.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/About/Partners.htm"> cattys_cats</a> wow. 8. thats a lot of people to feed.
do you even have room in the house?

I think that your mom adopting your niece/nephew is a a good idea…its just that the family is big enough already.

I think it should go up for adoption. Give it to a family that will love it just as much as you guys do. Try to stay in touch with that family, if it eases the pain.

Still, your mom seems persistent in keeping her grandchild. If your sister does in fact keep it, she should condiser applying for WIC or an organization that will help her raise her baby. She should even take a few teen pregnancy classes–kind of like counseling for teen parents.

I think its very nice that you care for your sister. Good luck n God bless. cattys_cats

]]> By: babygirlnc http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6491 babygirlnc Fri, 19 Feb 2010 07:38:05 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6491 if I was your mom, I'd keep it and raise it as my own as well. It's her baby's child! Why should there be a problem with your mom adopting the baby? That way, your sister can have a life. I've heard stories of women not knowing that they were pregnant until they went in to the ER with back or abdominal pain and the baby either crowned or showed up on an x-ray. Not much surprises me anymore.<a href="http://www.besthomeorganizers.com/658"> babygirlnc</a> if I was your mom, I’d keep it and raise it as my own as well. It’s her baby’s child! Why should there be a problem with your mom adopting the baby? That way, your sister can have a life.

I’ve heard stories of women not knowing that they were pregnant until they went in to the ER with back or abdominal pain and the baby either crowned or showed up on an x-ray. Not much surprises me anymore. babygirlnc

]]> By: Amanda S http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6490 Amanda S Wed, 17 Feb 2010 05:53:51 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6490 I think that it sould be ultimatly your sisters choice, even though she is only 13, she is the one that will have to live with the choise. Maybe she can talk to a school counseler or someone that she trusts and they can find out what she really wants. I am guessing she wants to keep the baby if she went the full term without telling anyone about it and not doing anything, like having an abortion, during that time. Good Luck!<a href="http://www.legaldot.net/law/social-security-disability-claim/social-security-disability-lawyers.htm"> Amanda S</a> I think that it sould be ultimatly your sisters choice, even though she is only 13, she is the one that will have to live with the choise. Maybe she can talk to a school counseler or someone that she trusts and they can find out what she really wants. I am guessing she wants to keep the baby if she went the full term without telling anyone about it and not doing anything, like having an abortion, during that time. Good Luck! Amanda S

]]> By: my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6489 my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com Mon, 15 Feb 2010 10:47:01 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6489 it is not up to you to sway her stay out of it<a href="http://www.greattoolsusa.com/air-ratchets-4387"> my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com</a> it is not up to you to sway her stay out of it my_heartlieswithin@yahoo.com

]]> By: snddupree http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6488 snddupree Mon, 15 Feb 2010 08:27:56 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6488 That is a tough decision. It is going to need to be a joint decision. If your Mom feels your family can handle it financially I personally feel it is the best for the child to stay with family. If not, adoption is a viable alternative (maybe an open adoption).<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/"> snddupree</a> That is a tough decision. It is going to need to be a joint decision. If your Mom feels your family can handle it financially I personally feel it is the best for the child to stay with family. If not, adoption is a viable alternative (maybe an open adoption). snddupree

]]> By: Aneesa S http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6487 Aneesa S Sun, 14 Feb 2010 01:11:30 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6487 it's her baby... and her choice... it's her life... if she was too young to have sex... she should have never had sex.<a href="http://www.popwebshop.com/family/"> Aneesa S</a> it’s her baby… and her choice… it’s her life… if she was too young to have sex… she should have never had sex. Aneesa S

]]> By: Sarah http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6486 Sarah Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:46:59 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6486 i think uour lying....theres no way no one noticed!<a href="http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/social-security-office.htm"> Sarah</a> i think uour lying….theres no way no one noticed! Sarah

]]> By: earthmonkey http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/comment-page-1/#comment-6485 earthmonkey Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:15:41 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/my-little-sister13yrs-oldjust-had-a-babymy-mom-wants2keep-iti-think-adoptionhow-about-uhow-do-i-sway-her/#comment-6485 ANYone who is suggesting that this 13 year old child has a CHOICE to keep this baby is sniffing glue. a 13 year old does not have the means to care for herself much less an infant. that baby and that baby's mother are both dependant on someone else to care for them. when she is on her own, she can make choices, but for now...she is a child. GIVE IT UP. it is not a doll. GIVE IT UP.<a href="http://www.myislandholiday.com/anna-maria-island-vacation-rental.htm"> earthmonkey</a> ANYone who is suggesting that this 13 year old child has a CHOICE to keep this baby is sniffing glue. a 13 year old does not have the means to care for herself much less an infant. that baby and that baby’s mother are both dependant on someone else to care for them. when she is on her own, she can make choices, but for now…she is a child.
GIVE IT UP.
it is not a doll.
GIVE IT UP. earthmonkey

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