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	<title>Comments on: Should I place my unborn baby up for adoption?</title>
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		<title>By: need help</title>
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		<dc:creator>need help</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 15:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish i could meet you and adoption your baby boy from you .I  want a baby boy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish i could meet you and adoption your baby boy from you .I  want a baby boy.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie L</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 08:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the choice is yours.  if you know you can't provide for this child then adoption would be a good thing.  If you truely feel it is best for this little guy look into it. bless you for bringing him into this world and may you have strength through all this.  you are a amazing person to want and do what is right for your child</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the choice is yours.  if you know you can&#8217;t provide for this child then adoption would be a good thing.  If you truely feel it is best for this little guy look into it. bless you for bringing him into this world and may you have strength through all this.  you are a amazing person to want and do what is right for your child</p>
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		<title>By: LC</title>
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		<dc:creator>LC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 17:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is not a question that anyone here can answer for you.  However, let me tell you a little story. 

The story starts with two people that meet in college and fall in love.  They eventually get married and decide to start a family.  Unfortunately, they are unable to conceive.  They try artificial insemination and IVF, and they don't work either.

After thinking long and hard about it, the couple decide to try to adopt.  They put their names on the list with a placement agency, and they are told that it can take up to three years to find a child.  The couple realizes that this is the only way they are going to have their family, so they jump in with both feet and they contact an adoption attorney.  They are told that it usually takes about a year.  

The couple prepares their profile, gets the home study, and attends the classes.  Then they wait.

But...they don't wait for long!  They get a call from the attorney.  The birth mother has chosen them, and she is due in a couple of days.

Oh my! Says the man, we don't even have a nursery set up yet!  Oh my! Says the woman, I don't have time for a shower!  

The couple flies all the way across the country to meet with their new baby, and they get to take the baby home!

In the six days between the last two paragraphs, the sparte bedroom became the nursery, complete with paint and a new carpet!  The registry was created for all of the gifts.  And the shower was planned for a week after the couple comes back home with their new addition.

The reason I am telling you this is because none of this happiness would be possible without a birth mother that chose the couple.  A birth mother that loved her baby so much that she decided that she couldn't give everything that was needed for a happy childhood. 

I am that man, and my wife is that woman.  There is a woman out there that has given us something that all of the money in the world couldn't give us.  She has made all of our dreams come true.  

You hear every day about "heroes" that do unselfish things.  That birth mother is truly a hero.  She gave up her child, so that we could have a child.  We don't question her motives.  In these days where abortions are easy to get, this woman carried a child for nine months.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is not a question that anyone here can answer for you.  However, let me tell you a little story. </p>
<p>The story starts with two people that meet in college and fall in love.  They eventually get married and decide to start a family.  Unfortunately, they are unable to conceive.  They try artificial insemination and IVF, and they don&#8217;t work either.</p>
<p>After thinking long and hard about it, the couple decide to try to adopt.  They put their names on the list with a placement agency, and they are told that it can take up to three years to find a child.  The couple realizes that this is the only way they are going to have their family, so they jump in with both feet and they contact an adoption attorney.  They are told that it usually takes about a year.  </p>
<p>The couple prepares their profile, gets the home study, and attends the classes.  Then they wait.</p>
<p>But&#8230;they don&#8217;t wait for long!  They get a call from the attorney.  The birth mother has chosen them, and she is due in a couple of days.</p>
<p>Oh my! Says the man, we don&#8217;t even have a nursery set up yet!  Oh my! Says the woman, I don&#8217;t have time for a shower!  </p>
<p>The couple flies all the way across the country to meet with their new baby, and they get to take the baby home!</p>
<p>In the six days between the last two paragraphs, the sparte bedroom became the nursery, complete with paint and a new carpet!  The registry was created for all of the gifts.  And the shower was planned for a week after the couple comes back home with their new addition.</p>
<p>The reason I am telling you this is because none of this happiness would be possible without a birth mother that chose the couple.  A birth mother that loved her baby so much that she decided that she couldn&#8217;t give everything that was needed for a happy childhood. </p>
<p>I am that man, and my wife is that woman.  There is a woman out there that has given us something that all of the money in the world couldn&#8217;t give us.  She has made all of our dreams come true.  </p>
<p>You hear every day about &#8220;heroes&#8221; that do unselfish things.  That birth mother is truly a hero.  She gave up her child, so that we could have a child.  We don&#8217;t question her motives.  In these days where abortions are easy to get, this woman carried a child for nine months.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley81</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashley81</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 05:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My heart goes out to you. I know this is a very difficult time for you. I have never been adopted but my husband was. His birth mother gave him up to a wonderful family who was able to give him all the things she never could. They also gave him love and an extended family who loves him as if he had been born into their family. What his birth mother did was the bravest and most generous thing she could ever do. He has never felt anything but gratitude for what she did. Please consider letting a family adopt your baby.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My heart goes out to you. I know this is a very difficult time for you. I have never been adopted but my husband was. His birth mother gave him up to a wonderful family who was able to give him all the things she never could. They also gave him love and an extended family who loves him as if he had been born into their family. What his birth mother did was the bravest and most generous thing she could ever do. He has never felt anything but gratitude for what she did. Please consider letting a family adopt your baby.</p>
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		<title>By: friend</title>
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		<dc:creator>friend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 04:56:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well hon.. No one can answer that question for you.. You are the one that has to decide.. Whatever you decide is going to be best for you.. I think being single and having 4 children would be really difficult. Wow twins at 14 months that is a big job besides two others to take care.. I don't know I think that you will know in your heart what is best for you.. Adoption is a very loving and unselfish option if you decide to go that route.. There are so many couples looking to adopt.. If you would like to talk you can send me a message and we can talk some more...Thanks this is my opinion...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well hon.. No one can answer that question for you.. You are the one that has to decide.. Whatever you decide is going to be best for you.. I think being single and having 4 children would be really difficult. Wow twins at 14 months that is a big job besides two others to take care.. I don&#8217;t know I think that you will know in your heart what is best for you.. Adoption is a very loving and unselfish option if you decide to go that route.. There are so many couples looking to adopt.. If you would like to talk you can send me a message and we can talk some more&#8230;Thanks this is my opinion&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: karen_pinyon</title>
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		<dc:creator>karen_pinyon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 02:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It looks to me that you are in hot water and it seems that adoption is the only way out but that doesn't mean you loose contact with the child you have adopted out. Give the child the right to know why you had to adopt him/her out when the time is right. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It looks to me that you are in hot water and it seems that adoption is the only way out but that doesn&#8217;t mean you loose contact with the child you have adopted out. Give the child the right to know why you had to adopt him/her out when the time is right. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.</p>
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		<title>By: ginarose</title>
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		<dc:creator>ginarose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NO, don't place your baby up for adoption.  You have 4 other children welcome this one with open arms too.  sure it'll be tough but not forever.  this may hurt you even worst since you have kids--thinking about whether this one will look like your other beautiful children. your other children may also have a problem with it too; especially if they are older.   they may develop self worth, trust, and other esteem issues with this.  please don't assume that b/c they are fairly young they don't get it; they may not fully understand but they will get some kind of message from it(whether its the right message or not).  You would never want them to question your love for them-- Mommy gave out little brother / sister away to a new family maybe she feels like that about us.  the point is children internalize things different.   Continuously pray for guidance</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NO, don&#8217;t place your baby up for adoption.  You have 4 other children welcome this one with open arms too.  sure it&#8217;ll be tough but not forever.  this may hurt you even worst since you have kids&#8211;thinking about whether this one will look like your other beautiful children. your other children may also have a problem with it too; especially if they are older.   they may develop self worth, trust, and other esteem issues with this.  please don&#8217;t assume that b/c they are fairly young they don&#8217;t get it; they may not fully understand but they will get some kind of message from it(whether its the right message or not).  You would never want them to question your love for them&#8211; Mommy gave out little brother / sister away to a new family maybe she feels like that about us.  the point is children internalize things different.   Continuously pray for guidance</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda b</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 09:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dont know what you should do but if you decide to adopt i would love to take you baby and give it a woundefull home ill pray for you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dont know what you should do but if you decide to adopt i would love to take you baby and give it a woundefull home ill pray for you</p>
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		<title>By: jessicamichelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>jessicamichelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 00:07:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is a decision that you and only you can make. follow your heart... the best way to figure it out is to interview a few couples and see where your heart takes you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is a decision that you and only you can make. follow your heart&#8230; the best way to figure it out is to interview a few couples and see where your heart takes you.</p>
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		<title>By: Mel M</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mel M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 15:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was adopted by a very loving couple many years ago.  Now  days you would be able to pick the parents which is very different from when I was adopted.  It sounds like you have your hands full.  Giving your baby to a couple who are unable to have children that would be able to love it and provide for it is a wonderful gift that you could give the baby and the couple that you choose for your baby.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was adopted by a very loving couple many years ago.  Now  days you would be able to pick the parents which is very different from when I was adopted.  It sounds like you have your hands full.  Giving your baby to a couple who are unable to have children that would be able to love it and provide for it is a wonderful gift that you could give the baby and the couple that you choose for your baby.</p>
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