Comments on: should i put my baby for adoption? http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/ Tue, 22 May 2012 13:07:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Isis Grace http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6274 Isis Grace Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:22:34 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6274 If you feel like you can't take care of a child, put it up for adoption and have no regrets. Good Luck.<a href="http://www.bigjobtools.com/srch/srch.php?q=farm"> Isis Grace</a> If you feel like you can’t take care of a child, put it up for adoption and have no regrets. Good Luck. Isis Grace

]]> By: Sara C http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6273 Sara C Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:00:00 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6273 Hi,there im 26 years old and have 3 kids.the third time i found out that i was pregnant my husband didnt want to have another baby cuz we were just making it but i said im having this baby i dont care what you say !!!my baby is know 9 months and he loves her and now he says that how could he not wanted his little angel.The reason why i say this to you is cuz when your holding your firts baby at the hospital your going to want to do better for that angel send from hevan so please make sure that what ever you do you wont regret it (sorry for my spelling) you see what i mean i dont even know how to spell and i take care of 3 kids GOOD LUCK<a href="http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/family-law-australia.htm"> Sara C</a> Hi,there im 26 years old and have 3 kids.the third time i found out that i was pregnant my husband didnt want to have another baby cuz we were just making it but i said im having this baby i dont care what you say !!!my baby is know 9 months and he loves her and now he says that how could he not wanted his little angel.The reason why i say this to you is cuz when your holding your firts baby at the hospital your going to want to do better for that angel send from hevan so please make sure that what ever you do you wont regret it
(sorry for my spelling)
you see what i mean i dont even know how to spell and i take care of 3 kids

GOOD LUCK Sara C

]]> By: Poppy http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6272 Poppy Wed, 02 Dec 2009 07:29:23 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6272 I hope you buy condoms and then you won't have to worry. First, you have to get hubby to agree, people should not have children until they are on their feet, have a good income and not have to have help from the public. After the baby is born find a job, even $6/hr will help you what with your husband making $6/hr. Maybe you could go to school at night after work,It would only be maybe 2 or 3 night's a week.<a href="http://www.bestpricesuits.com/153"> Poppy</a> I hope you buy condoms and then you won’t have to worry. First, you have to get hubby to agree, people should not have children until they are on their feet, have a good income and not have to have help from the public. After the baby is born find a job, even $6/hr will help you what with your husband making $6/hr. Maybe you could go to school at night after work,It would only be maybe 2 or 3 night’s a week. Poppy

]]> By: elbow17green http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6271 elbow17green Sat, 28 Nov 2009 22:49:40 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6271 I understand loving your baby before you have held it in your arms. I am a mother and thought I was having a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I also know and understand the wonderful gift of adoption. I have a nephew who was adopted. His mother tried to get pregnant and it was one thing after another. He is such a joy and saved her from unhappiness. His birth mother had some bad circumstances and gave him up. I am sure she lives every day loving him but hopefully she knows in her heart that he is better than ok. He has a huge extended family that loves him. I would keep him every day of my life if I could. My point is that adoption is a possibility that can be wonderful but you have to accept that you turn the child to another family. It is the best gift our family has ever received. If you are prepared mention it to hubby. It is truly a gift and I admire a person that knows they must give their child a better life and go this route. My mother was adopted so this was instilled in me. Good luck with your choice either way.<a href="http://www.doggydisease.com/heart-disease-in-dog.htm"> elbow17green</a> I understand loving your baby before you have held it in your arms. I am a mother and thought I was having a miscarriage at 9 weeks.
I also know and understand the wonderful gift of adoption. I have a nephew who was adopted. His mother tried to get pregnant and it was one thing after another.
He is such a joy and saved her from unhappiness. His birth mother had some bad circumstances and gave him up. I am sure she lives every day loving him but hopefully she knows in her heart that he is better than ok. He has a huge extended family that loves him. I would keep him every day of my life if I could.
My point is that adoption is a possibility that can be wonderful but you have to accept that you turn the child to another family. It is the best gift our family has ever received. If you are prepared mention it to hubby. It is truly a gift and I admire a person that knows they must give their child a better life and go this route. My mother was adopted so this was instilled in me.
Good luck with your choice either way. elbow17green

]]> By: ~LoveSpell~ http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6270 ~LoveSpell~ Sat, 28 Nov 2009 10:39:51 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6270 Im wouldn't if I where you bc dear not everyone is ready to have a child at first but we all make it.....bc I'm a single mother and I thought I couldnt do it alone and my son is 5 years old.....so but some more faith in yourself and your husband and get thru this together and try going to your local Dept of Human Services to get some goverment help<a href="http://www.prohomeschool.com/free-homeschool-curriculum.htm"> ~LoveSpell~</a> Im wouldn’t if I where you bc dear not everyone is ready to have a child at first but we all make it…..bc I’m a single mother and I thought I couldnt do it alone and my son is 5 years old…..so but some more faith in yourself and your husband and get thru this together and try going to your local Dept of Human Services to get some goverment help ~LoveSpell~

]]> By: Tanisha D http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6269 Tanisha D Fri, 27 Nov 2009 03:14:04 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6269 there are places that can help you like Birthright they can help you find resources for your situation I wish you the best of luck and God Bless call them 1-800-550-4900<a href="http://www.namingmybaby.com/baby-middle-name.htm"> Tanisha D</a> there are places that can help you like Birthright they can help you find resources for your situation I wish you the best of luck and God Bless call them 1-800-550-4900 Tanisha D

]]> By: Kirsten W http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6268 Kirsten W Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:39:15 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6268 Well I would not give up your baby you will reget it the rest or your life there are government assistance to help there are so many things that you can get. I would say think about things long and hard before you do anything because it is a life long thing it is not like you can take the baby back. I hope everything works out. God Bless you in your choice.<a href="http://www.bigjobtools.com/srch/srch.php?q=hand+tools"> Kirsten W</a> Well I would not give up your baby you will reget it the rest or your life there are government assistance to help there are so many things that you can get. I would say think about things long and hard before you do anything because it is a life long thing it is not like you can take the baby back. I hope everything works out. God Bless you in your choice. Kirsten W

]]> By: blessed2bstressedby4 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6267 blessed2bstressedby4 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 02:15:06 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6267 The question is do you want the child? If you want the child, and love the child, do you ever really think you could get over giving it up? Probably not. Are there people who could provide more financially, probably so, but can you provide the things it NEEDS, and LOVE it the way it needs to be loved? Those are the main things. Sign up for finacial assistance from the government. They can help you with more than you think. Look into local clinics, or assistance centers. There may be some places that get donations to give to low income mothers. There is a place in my area that even provides, cribs, clothes, swings, formula, etc. WIC is a good start but you will need to get welfare, medicaid, and food stamps. I can assure you there are jobs. Dont be above any jobs. Take a cashier or fast food if thats all that there is. There is no shame in a man (or woman) doing an honest days work to provide for their family, even if it is in a "demeaning" position. If you feel that giving the baby up is the best choice then the best thing to do is just blurt it out and get the option on the table with your hubby.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Recruiting/Contact-Request.htm"> blessed2bstressedby4</a> The question is do you want the child? If you want the child, and love the child, do you ever really think you could get over giving it up? Probably not. Are there people who could provide more financially, probably so, but can you provide the things it NEEDS, and LOVE it the way it needs to be loved? Those are the main things. Sign up for finacial assistance from the government. They can help you with more than you think. Look into local clinics, or assistance centers. There may be some places that get donations to give to low income mothers. There is a place in my area that even provides, cribs, clothes, swings, formula, etc. WIC is a good start but you will need to get welfare, medicaid, and food stamps. I can assure you there are jobs. Dont be above any jobs. Take a cashier or fast food if thats all that there is. There is no shame in a man (or woman) doing an honest days work to provide for their family, even if it is in a “demeaning” position. If you feel that giving the baby up is the best choice then the best thing to do is just blurt it out and get the option on the table with your hubby. blessed2bstressedby4

]]> By: Sune http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6266 Sune Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:12:21 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6266 Yes you should discuss it with your husband if it is something that you are seriously thinking about. You can bring it up by just talking about how you guys will go about doing things with the baby here, such as finances and stuff. Then when he answers you, just bring it up as an option, not a finalitay. This is a hard decision to come by, and no one can answer the question for you. THere are other government assistant programs out there besides WIC that will be able to help you as well. Sometimes your electric and gas companies have alternatives as well when you come into having financial trouble. There is also help from the churches out there, so you just need to check around, set a budget, cut everything you can live without and money will be tighter. But if you want to keep the baby, there are plenty of options out there for you, if you decide to give your baby up for adoption, you can always decide to have it be an open adoption, that way you can keep in touch with the adopters and your baby as it grows.<a href="http://www.cargearusa.com/srch/srch.php?q=suspension"> Sune</a> Yes you should discuss it with your husband if it is something that you are seriously thinking about. You can bring it up by just talking about how you guys will go about doing things with the baby here, such as finances and stuff. Then when he answers you, just bring it up as an option, not a finalitay.

This is a hard decision to come by, and no one can answer the question for you. THere are other government assistant programs out there besides WIC that will be able to help you as well. Sometimes your electric and gas companies have alternatives as well when you come into having financial trouble. There is also help from the churches out there, so you just need to check around, set a budget, cut everything you can live without and money will be tighter. But if you want to keep the baby, there are plenty of options out there for you, if you decide to give your baby up for adoption, you can always decide to have it be an open adoption, that way you can keep in touch with the adopters and your baby as it grows. Sune

]]> By: Mamma to an angel http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/comment-page-1/#comment-6265 Mamma to an angel Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:15:13 +0000 http://www.myadoptedbaby.com/blog/should-i-put-my-baby-for-adoption/#comment-6265 If you want to keep the baby, you can. If you put your mind to it, and believe you can do it. You could also look into open adoption. The parents you pick will send you pictures and updates, and you could possibly visit the baby.<a href="http://www.fishtrek.com/articles/sailfish.htm"> Mamma to an angel</a> If you want to keep the baby, you can. If you put your mind to it, and believe you can do it.

You could also look into open adoption. The parents you pick will send you pictures and updates, and you could possibly visit the baby. Mamma to an angel

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