My Adopted Baby

newenglandjoy asked:


Oh yes now many of you do. Is is not true that you would still have problems? Is this not a convenient way to avoid taking responsibility? I am not trying to offend please believe me. Has not adoption added as much to your life as it has detracted? Is this not true. I am saddened.

Scarlet asked:


I’m 20, have a wedding planning buisness and have a 3 1/2 year old daughter that is my world. But now that she’s getting older and her being kind of lonely, I want to have another baby. I know I can support two kids, I make enough money, my house is big enough.

The problem? I’m a single mom. My baby’s daddy isn’t in her life and doesn’t pay CS, which is fine with me.

I don’t meet ANY requirements for adoption, I’ve checked.

Should I do a sperm donor? Or should I do the surgote mother? I actually have already gotten information on that.

Please help!
I can’t adopt because I’m WAY too young.
I saw Baby Mama too….but that doesn’t mean you can just label every surogate mom!
I’m not wanting this baby out of selfishness. I want another baby to love and care for and I also want my daughter to have a sibling. It can be both,

Krista asked:


I am due in June and am a teen. I thought about adoption a lot, but I am pretty sure I am going to keep my baby. But some days I feel so confident about keeping her, and other days I feel like I should do adoption because I am so young and feel like I will not be strong enough at this point to raise a child. Just looking for your personal experiences, and whether you regret anything. Thanks!

Say goodbye to hollywood asked:


I ask this because every adopted girl i know is a raging whore, which i totally like! But i would not want to be the father of one of these pole dancers. I would personally rather just abort it than risk what my daughter could be. What would you do?

xo asked:


Plus I would love to see myself in my child a bit selfish but hey who doesn’t? I would adopt if the process was easier ):

Mary Ann A asked:


I would like to ask how do you survive losing a child and him being adopted to a family member who doesn’t even try to get him to talk to me. I lost him due to an illness i got and he didn’t want to be with me anymore but why did they have to adopt him he was 12 years old he was and will always be my baby. I need help i cry every day for him really need someone to talk to. Thank You

caz_m_white asked:


Ok i know it sounds really bad but my first child who’s 4 now was talking before he was one, but my 2nd doesnt talk and i dont want him to make my other son less intelligent and bring him down infront of his peers when he’s older, he is cute so i know he would find a family with ease, or should i stick with him and hope its just a phase?

helpmeiamcrazynow asked:


I’m 20 years old and I haven’t graduated high school. I can’t get anything better than minimum wage and I’m unsure if I would even know what I’m doing with my baby. My roomate has said she’ll help me out, and my boyfriend says he’ll be there too.
Sometimes, I’m sure I’ll be able to do it, but other times, I’m not so sure.
Some people have mentioned abortion, I don’t believe in it. I couldn’t take my child’s life just because of my own selfish reasons. It’s not the baby’s fault. So please stop asking about abortion.

Kitty asked:


I make really good money and am just going to be in this apartment until I get a kid then i’ll buy a house. A house is just too big for just me.

I will hire my parents as a nanny then a couple days a week they can go to a daycare to play.

I will always be home by 6. My job isn’t one too need me after hours.

just wondering asked:


Ok so my sister is adopting a baby and my other sister and I would like to give her a baby shower before the baby comes home but the sister that is adopting wants to wait till the baby is officially adopted. Should we still give her a surprise baby shower? we are more excited then she is it seems!!