My Adopted Baby

whatsnext08 asked:


We both reside in Michigan, I already have a child from a previous and only marriage, but neither one of us are in the position to take care a of a child at the moment. I think it would be in the best interest of this child to find a home for it that can provide a loving, nourishing, educating, and stable home.

Lola+Baby asked:


I just need to know if the father specifically has any rights to the baby while he’s in my tummy.
He’s abusive and it would be in our best interest to give this baby up for adoption because we are both so young.

momof3 asked:


My friend’s daugther is expecting her third child any day now and she just decided that she may not want to keep the baby. This was an unplanned pregnancy for both her and her husband and they already have 2 wonderful children. Both parents are very family oriented but also career minded as well. She already has an established career but intended to go back to school to further her education and feels having to care for another child will put those dreams out of the picture. Also, due to last trimester complications, she has had to stop working earlier than planned and the family has suddenly become financially burdened. I was just wondering if anyone else thought that this decision was being selfish or if it sounds like it is in the best interest of the baby. And, what does one tell the other two children who are anticipating the birth of a new sibling. Any reasonable advice is appreciated.
I don’t think that the reasons are because the family has no time to look after the baby, but rather more because of financial reasons that they feel they may not be able to adequately provide for another child at this point in time.