My Adopted Baby

karri h asked:


My friend and her husband are trying to adopt. They can’t have kids.I’m not looking for a birthmother, I’m just trying to get an ideal of how many people put there baby up for adoption.If you are and dont want to post it just email me.Thanks for any help you have.

Momof2! asked:


A co-worker of mine is in the process of adopting, and her and her husband arranged a private adoption with a young birthmom (legally and through a lawyer), in which they paid all her medical expenses, maternity costs, etc, with the understanding that the baby would be placed with them at birth. They even paid for the birthmom to see a therapist to make sure she was ok with adoption, etc etc. My co-worker was supposed to start maternity leave next week, (the baby was born 8 days ago, and they’ve spent every minute they can at the hospital with him) and came into work today in tears because her and her husband received a phone call this morning from their lawyer telling them the deal is off. l just started working with this lady, so l don’t know her that well, but l want to offer her some comfort. Has anyone else experienced this? Do you think it’s unfair or wrong?