My Adopted Baby

kylethebad asked:


What method will help the baby later on in life? Closed Adoption Semi open or open? I would like to hear from someone that has had this or has a kid that has gone over this. If you need more info Email me at kreese2010@hotmail.com
Also i am 19 and my girlfriend is 20. We are both in school. I want give it up to some one who can give my baby a life i cant.

anonymous asked:


I’m currently 5months pregnant and cannot keep the child. Very bad circumstances surround the situation. I’m considering a closed adoption, which is heartbreaking but necessary.

All my co workers see that I’m pregnant, and I can’t bring myself to tell anyone that I’m giving the baby up. There is such a stigma to giving up a baby. But after I have the baby, and it’s with it’s new family, I’ll need to tell co-workers something. Can I just say that my baby didn’t make it, and that I don’t want to discuss it? I don’t want to tell anyone about the adoption.

Any suggestions? Please be kind. This is difficult enough! Thank you.

jl_calkins asked:


Please only answer if you chose a closed adoption for your baby. My biol. mother was 16 or 17 when I was born in 1981. After 28 years, would you want your child to try and find you? Or is it better off left alone. I’m assuming she chose a closed adoption for a reason, but I thought possibly she may have regrets. Thanks for your thoughts.
Thank you to the moms who answered my question and shared your personal stories. I just want to point out again that I’m looking for only “birth moms” to answer my question. Although the answers from the “adoptees” are interesting, it’s not exactly what I’m looking for.

Ruthie asked:


Like on usually if it’s close adoption but there not taking baby right after birth?