My Adopted Baby

Kar asked:


Just wondered what your own feelings were, did you find it awful or were you ok and happy becasue baby going to another happy home?

Thank you!

confusionismynickname asked:


ok so,im 17 and im 5 months pregnant..im planning to give the baby up for adoption..at first i thought i wouldnt have any feelings for this baby if i just dont think about it that much..but when i went to the doctor and saw the baby inside me yawn and move her(its a girl) arms around,and feel her kick everynight,i just cant help but feel sad that im giving up my baby and i wouldnt be ablet o see her grow up..im so proud that i have a baby girl but it just makes me cry knowing i wont see her grow up,wont see her have her first walk..im not the one she’ll call mama when she first say it..im giving her up because i dont think i can support her financially and i want her to have the best opportunities in life..at the age of 17? can i give her all of that? and i also want to continue school and become a doctor..so do u think its smart to give my baby for adoption?

mago asked:


There was a lot of thing what this mom shouldn’t do with that baby.
Grandma tried a lot of ways to change it. She was kindly talking to that mom, she was keeping eye and tried to prevent a lot of things. For example 2 weeks baby shouldn’t sleep on the stomach or baby shouldn’t be tightly enveloped in a flannel diaper too long and so go on.
How to do this all:
to avoid conflicts and do not hurt feelings of young mom and to help baby?