My Adopted Baby

Jodie M asked:


here is my problems:
I am 22 years old and confused well ,knocked up and confused.
I was falling out of love with my baby daddy he knew it an all start screwing around with other people I was mad but can’t let him go then I find out I’m pregnant.
He says whatever I want to do with the baby is cool he’s for it but I say adoption he’s like “no” he’d rather take care of it
I still live with my parents and they would rather take care of the baby to
I feel like my mom has no job my boyfriend has no job my grandma has income but is struggling so I want to give up to a family who is more financial stable I was looking into an open adoption
but me working I’m embarrassed cause I never knew anyone who you know gave their baby up for adoption
I’m thinking about just quitting my job and being a stay at home mom to but seriously thats stupid i’d be even more you know broke .
What should I do?
I would be embrassed to come to work pregnant and then tell everyone I’m giving my baby away

mago asked:


There was a lot of thing what this mom shouldn’t do with that baby.
Grandma tried a lot of ways to change it. She was kindly talking to that mom, she was keeping eye and tried to prevent a lot of things. For example 2 weeks baby shouldn’t sleep on the stomach or baby shouldn’t be tightly enveloped in a flannel diaper too long and so go on.
How to do this all:
to avoid conflicts and do not hurt feelings of young mom and to help baby?