My Adopted Baby

~ asked:


Please take this seriously.

So, I’m 16 and I’m a mommy to a beautiful 11 month baby girl. See, my baby’s daddy is 16 too and we recently broke up (boyfriend of 2 years). I lived with his parents and him for like more than half of my baby’s life but things started getting rocky & i moved out. And since I’m underage, I have no insurance for her. His parents are trying to adopt her (bad idea, trust me) But then so is my mom. So if i were to sign my baby over to my mom, for adoption, would I need the baby’s daddy’s signature on it too? His parents are stuck up snobs, who talk smack about me behind my back. Who only want me living in their house for MY baby, & they don’t even act like she’s my baby. They always take her away from me, and so im scared that if i sign her over, they wont sign her back.

plathamore asked:


there is a baby shower i am going to but the mom is giving it up what the heck do you buy her?

Bella asked:


I’m watching this tv show where the mom wants to put the baby up for adoption but the father doesnt…What happens in these type of situations??

sledder_punk_09 asked:


i am 17 years old. i foundout that i was pregnant 4 months ago. my boyfriend wants to keep the baby and i do also. i’m planning on telling my parents that i’m pregnant sometime this week, but my mom has always told me that if i got pregnant under the age of 18 she would force me to give the baby up… do i get any rights to what happens when im only 17? is their a law that says my parents get to choose what happens to my baby in minnesota?

ava! asked:


I’ll be seventeen when my baby’s born.. and my mom got mad at me and is telling me she can get a court order anywhere in the United States to make me give my baby up for adoption.. Is she lying?

Hiding asked:


Hello, anybody know how I can give up my baby for adoption without the father’s permission?

My reason is I know I cannot take care of the baby and want to put him in a good home. I am not married. The father is my exboyfriend who is physically and mentally abusive. The last thing I want to do is for my child to grow up with a monster. My ex claims he found Jesus and changed…but I found out he told that to his last girlfriend too and beat her too. His family is obsessively Catholic so they have some crazy Christian guilt/violence issues. His mom is really nuts and abused him too so I don’t want to give my baby to the grandparents.

Would doing the adoption in Canada be better than the USA?
The reason I cannot go to court is I do not have money for a long legal custody fight. I am not financially able to take care of my baby so that is why adoption is the answer.

Monique asked:


im scared, because im not 100% sure that i am or not, me & my bf used protection, but i really think the condom ripped. i can’t tell if i am pregnant or not yet, because this only happened on tuesday, but i told my mom & she wants me to either abort or put the baby up for adoption. i don’t want to do either of those….ugh i don’t know what to do. hellppp:(

sunshinedust_ami asked:


Is it possible to give a baby up for adoption even if your parents don’t consent?
My mom is completely against it, but I’m 19. And I can’t have a baby right now.
Does it cost anything?
And how would I go about doing that exactly?

CupcakeMollestor asked:


was it one of the hardest things for you to do. My mom wants me to and i really dont think i can do it. I want to raise my child i dont think i could deal with not knowing if he/she is okay. Any stories or advice?

stressedmother asked:


Please hear my story before you judge. I am married, and my husband and i have been married for 6 years now. We have a 1 year old son, who is a ’special needs’ baby, and is on medicines and many doctors appointments. We live in a very small town, and his closest doctor is a 45 minute drive away. Everything has been fine until about 6 months ago. My husbands work went out of business, and our only car broke down. We were renting to own a house, but the owner of the house passed away unexpecdedly, so we were forced to move out, and now live in an apartment. Yes, our son has WIC, etc, but WIC only covers half of his formula since it is prescribed by his doctor because of his health needs. Also, the state insurance doesnt cover his medicine, which we could afford until all this other stuff happened. We love our son very much. But everything in our life seems to be going wrong and we can barely afford to live. I just want the best for my son, someone who can afford to provide for him.
Liek i said, we really love our son. We put all of our money to him. Sometimes my husband and i dont eat, etc, just so we can affford to buy his medicine. I am doing the best i can as a mother,really. But i cant handle it anymore. We live in a very small town, with little to no job opportunities. My husband has a fake knee-cap from a Navy injury from 8 years ago, and he is having a hard time finding a job. I stay home with our son because we cant afford daycare anymore. I too am adopted. I would ask my parents for help, but i dont have any. My husband has a only a mom, who cant help either. I just need some advice on what to do. We were a perfect little family, and now everything has taken a turn for the worse. I dont care if i get to eat or not, i just want the best for my son.
Some of you are VERY rude and hurtful. I am not trying to ‘give away my son’ just so i can have more money. I am thinking about adoption so that he can have everything he needs and deserves. How does that make me a bad mother, because i care about his needs?
I do not own a computer or cell phone. I dont even have a phone line. I am at the local library, but thanks for assuming, being rude to me, and making me feel worse