My Adopted Baby

stressedmother asked:


Please hear my story before you judge. I am married, and my husband and i have been married for 6 years now. We have a 1 year old son, who is a ’special needs’ baby, and is on medicines and many doctors appointments. We live in a very small town, and his closest doctor is a 45 minute drive away. Everything has been fine until about 6 months ago. My husbands work went out of business, and our only car broke down. We were renting to own a house, but the owner of the house passed away unexpecdedly, so we were forced to move out, and now live in an apartment. Yes, our son has WIC, etc, but WIC only covers half of his formula since it is prescribed by his doctor because of his health needs. Also, the state insurance doesnt cover his medicine, which we could afford until all this other stuff happened. We love our son very much. But everything in our life seems to be going wrong and we can barely afford to live. I just want the best for my son, someone who can afford to provide for him.
Liek i said, we really love our son. We put all of our money to him. Sometimes my husband and i dont eat, etc, just so we can affford to buy his medicine. I am doing the best i can as a mother,really. But i cant handle it anymore. We live in a very small town, with little to no job opportunities. My husband has a fake knee-cap from a Navy injury from 8 years ago, and he is having a hard time finding a job. I stay home with our son because we cant afford daycare anymore. I too am adopted. I would ask my parents for help, but i dont have any. My husband has a only a mom, who cant help either. I just need some advice on what to do. We were a perfect little family, and now everything has taken a turn for the worse. I dont care if i get to eat or not, i just want the best for my son.
Some of you are VERY rude and hurtful. I am not trying to ‘give away my son’ just so i can have more money. I am thinking about adoption so that he can have everything he needs and deserves. How does that make me a bad mother, because i care about his needs?
I do not own a computer or cell phone. I dont even have a phone line. I am at the local library, but thanks for assuming, being rude to me, and making me feel worse

Filipino blood,sweat,and tears! asked:


I want to know what the baby benefits and what can be some downside.Same goes to the people who adopts the child.

My parents dont want to make another child(Im not forcing) because 2 died,the oldest and the youngest.I told them that I wanted a baby sister,but they said no more.My mom also had a heart attack.

kitten16_18 asked:


I have a friend that is wanting to adopt a baby in the state of Pennsylvania and her husband has drug charges (marijuana) which were misdemenor charges 3-5 years ago and if that will cause problems in the adoption process and if so is there any way to have them exsponged because they know a girl that her mom adopted her and other children and had alot worse charges on her record. And what other backround checks and other checks do they do for an adoption process?

&& this is emily asked:


I am 15 and 17 weeks along in my pregnancy. My mom has a big issue on this, she thinks I am taking the easy way out and not taking the responsibility, etc. I am doing what I think is the best for the baby. She has told me that if I don’t change my mind that she will fight/take the baby. So my question is can she do that? Can she step in because I am a minor? If you know anything on this please let me know, thank you for your help.

=]smile[= asked:


I found out that i have an older brother. Before my mom got married she was raped. The baby was given up for adoption. He should be around 23-25 years of age. But im not sure. What is the best way to look for him?

milky asked:


Hello we are a family that has been trying to have and adopt for over 4 years and my heart is set to be a mom and I know and hear of private adoption all the time I am seeking to have a open adoption.
Thank you I want to go through a attorney just not a agency and as for I can adopt your baby are you really pregnant?