My Adopted Baby

linda asked:


where and who do i contact if i want to give my 3days old baby up for adoption? its very hard for us young and single African moms to have some one to get their babies for adoption unless through the orphanage and i don’t wish to send my baby there.besides she is just a baby.please help me or contact me for more information.celinetracy@gmail.com

jl_calkins asked:


Please only answer if you chose a closed adoption for your baby. My biol. mother was 16 or 17 when I was born in 1981. After 28 years, would you want your child to try and find you? Or is it better off left alone. I’m assuming she chose a closed adoption for a reason, but I thought possibly she may have regrets. Thanks for your thoughts.
Thank you to the moms who answered my question and shared your personal stories. I just want to point out again that I’m looking for only “birth moms” to answer my question. Although the answers from the “adoptees” are interesting, it’s not exactly what I’m looking for.

cruzgirlz3 asked:


adoptees, Bio moms, Aparents? What are your thoughts?
Sorry, I forgot biodads. I’m interested your thoughts too.
I’m interested in everyone’s response but would also love to hear how your position in adoption effects your approach to this question.