Will my husband resent me for not giving our baby up for adoption?
Posted January 31st, 2009 by admin 22 Comments »
sunflower112006 asked:
My husband and I had not planned to have kids but when I got pregnant, abortion and adoption were out of the question. We were both really scared at first but have become more accepting and my huband has been really supportive, until recently. Now, 2 weeks away from having this baby he tells me that he doesnt want a baby and that we should give it up for adoption because he thinks it will ruin us and he will not let it ruin his life.He’s concerned about not being able to go out partying when he wants(how selfish) What about my life? Does this mean that he will resent me for not wanting to give it up? A day later he’s asking how the baby is doing and that he will not let this ruin us, so of course he is trying to say sorry for freaking out. What am I to make of all of this? Will he come around after the baby comes or is that wishful thinking?
My husband and I had not planned to have kids but when I got pregnant, abortion and adoption were out of the question. We were both really scared at first but have become more accepting and my huband has been really supportive, until recently. Now, 2 weeks away from having this baby he tells me that he doesnt want a baby and that we should give it up for adoption because he thinks it will ruin us and he will not let it ruin his life.He’s concerned about not being able to go out partying when he wants(how selfish) What about my life? Does this mean that he will resent me for not wanting to give it up? A day later he’s asking how the baby is doing and that he will not let this ruin us, so of course he is trying to say sorry for freaking out. What am I to make of all of this? Will he come around after the baby comes or is that wishful thinking?