My Adopted Baby

~Stefany asked:


is there anyone that someone knows or is there someone here who has given up their 2nd baby up for adoption but not their 1st? how did they/you come up with the courage to do that? & why is it that they decided to do it? did having one already make it easier? I just want to know, I know a lot of people give up their 1st baby but for the ones who don’t & have another 2nd baby, how is it that you can give up that one?

MaHo0oYa asked:


do you think the adoption:solution or problem?
please help.
if you have steps how we can educate the people or another solution for stop adoption problems.

thank you

my40w asked:


I am not sure if I would like to place my baby for adoption or not, but right now the situation is looking like I might have to. I am getting ready to talk to some people I have conections to, about maybe adopting my child. What kind of questions do I ask about them to make sure my baby gets a good home?
PS: I’m only 16 & would love to keep my baby but I have no clue how I would support it. My baby’s daddy wants to keep it too but he just went back to jail & unfortunatly isn’t going to be reliable support.

Jodie M asked:


here is my problems:
I am 22 years old and confused well ,knocked up and confused.
I was falling out of love with my baby daddy he knew it an all start screwing around with other people I was mad but can’t let him go then I find out I’m pregnant.
He says whatever I want to do with the baby is cool he’s for it but I say adoption he’s like “no” he’d rather take care of it
I still live with my parents and they would rather take care of the baby to
I feel like my mom has no job my boyfriend has no job my grandma has income but is struggling so I want to give up to a family who is more financial stable I was looking into an open adoption
but me working I’m embarrassed cause I never knew anyone who you know gave their baby up for adoption
I’m thinking about just quitting my job and being a stay at home mom to but seriously thats stupid i’d be even more you know broke .
What should I do?
I would be embrassed to come to work pregnant and then tell everyone I’m giving my baby away

ricepaddyprincess asked:


I’d rather it be adopted than to starve with me, thanks whoever just attacked me. so sorry i’d want my child to lead a better life than be selfish like u and keep it for ur own selfish comfort.
I didn’t literally mean starve, but a better quality of life than i can provide. I’m going to be 20 tuesday and there are more deserving people that want to be parents. that would be great parents. this all started bc i was irresponsible in the 1st place, u know.

Chocolate Candie asked:


I’m just asking …………Would it be cruel

ItsMe asked:


My cousins have just adopted an infant, something they have been waiting for for about 8 years. In that time they have acquired all the babies material needs (furniture, clothes etc.), however they accumulated a large amount of debt during the adoption process. Now that we are able to finally have a “baby shower” all they really need is financial help. Is it inappropriate to ask for money on the invitation instead of the usual registering for “stuff”? If it’s not inappropriate, do you have any ideas of how to “word” that on an invitation?
Wow, I didn’t realize I would get such “strong” responses from this.

But I wanted to add a little more detail becasue it seems that my “good intentions” are a little misunderstood.

What I’m tryingn to say, is that people WILL bring gifts, I have no doubt about that, but the idea behind my questions is that instead of the parents getting 22 receiving blankets and 5 bathtubs, etc. that a gift in the form of a donation, maybe to a college fund, would be money better spent by caring family members who want to participate in this joyus occasion.

And, by the way, to those that seem to think the parents are “poor” or that “if they BOUGHT the kid, then they should expect to be in debt” I’m sorry that you think that, it’s quite the opposite, but thanks for your pitiful input.

I ♥ Spring Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ asked:


Please don’t take offense by my question. I just don’t understand. Don’t you give up the adoption because you think it’s best for the baby? Nobody coerces you to, do they?

I just read a few answers with that line in a question and was confused. I’m 16 and don’t much about adoption but I’ve always wanted to adopt and so I want to know why ppl would write that….

Or is it just cause they’re sad about giving up the baby?

Nevaeh asked:


how hard is it to give your baby to somebody? I heard of open adoptions but how ofen can i see my baby if i do that? I dunno what to do cuz a lot of people are bein mean to me and saying that i should give my baby away and i am thinking about it now cuz i dont think its hard to take care of a baby but it might be and i dont want to be mean to my baby.

KRYSTL asked:


I cant believe this, but i actually heard this question on a radio commercial today. Dont worry… i am not pregnant, i just want to see what people answer. Thanks