My Adopted Baby

that one girl asked:


My friend has a month left in her pregnancy and she is thinking about signing her rights over to me and my husband. Is that possible without having legal fees or anything?

Ellie =D asked:


I am 19 years old and currently 8 weeks pregnant. The pregnancy was accidental. I am currently single as my bf broke up with me when I told him. I will not have an abortion but I don’t know if I am quite ready to look after a child. Should I let someone adopt my baby? (Please know I am not a slut or anything, I have only had sex once).

It’s Always Sunny Tonight! asked:


Would you keep in contact or forget about the whole pregnancy? or do something different?
I think staying away would be better, but theres no right answer, in my opinion

Julia L asked:


my husband had an affair and the girl got pregnant and gave the baby up for adoption but my husband didnt even know about the pregnancy because the girl just kind of disappeared and never told him anything.he wants more then anything to get the baby that he never knew existed and wants to be a father to it

poindextera asked:


When I was going through my divorce I had 3 boys under 4 the youngest was 6months old. I then got raped and that resulted in a pregnancy. I was talking to a friend and mentioned I had four babies in 5 years. She said what and I told her. She said I was the worst mother in the world,

Jane S asked:


What do you think? Any experiences? Suck it in a sink or wave goodbye?
Currently it is very difficult to adopt but some see pregnancy as an inconvienance. I would have given anything to rescue Caylee Anthony from death.

collegechick asked:


I am 19 years old and am a junior at university. My bf of 3 years has become a different person who drink, smokes, partys, and does illegal drugs. I disagree with all of these things and although I hope it’s a phase. We ended our relationship February. Shortly afterwards my mother’s cancer progressed and she passed away this Easter after five strong years of fighting. A week after the funeral I realized that my period was way off. I thought it was stress but I was 3 months pregnant.

I have tried to be responsible with the pregnancy and the baby has been very healthy. I told my ex the day I found out and have informed a few family members that will respect me no matter what choice I make about the future of the baby. I am 6 months along and although I have been doing research and counseling, I can’t seem to decide. Should I parent or place the baby in an adoptive family?
Financially the baby will be well provided for, unfortunately curtsy of the inheritance I just received. My biggest concerns are that the father will be wishy-washy in the child’s life if I decide to parent. My dad is concerned that I will have to become a mother too quickly and miss out on dating and the social life that I have been developing. I plan to finish school which will take two years and will still like to pursue my dream of becoming a lawyer, which is feasible with a baby but difficult. My worst fear is that I jealously want the baby to fit into my life, instead of mine centering on him.

With an (open) adoptive family he’d be well provided for and surrounded by two parents that adore each other as well as him. Counselors have asked me to divide the situation into 3 questions: Whats best for the father: adoption. Whats best for the mother: I adore the baby and would love to raise him and finally; Whats best for the baby?
That’s where I get stuck. So with the info you have on me, my situation, and your own life experiences, what do you think I should do?/what do you think is best for the baby?

Bloom B asked:


Were u young in your 20s? did u think u could not afford a baby and wasn’t the right time ? and u didn’t wanna go through abortion so u choice adoption? are u glad u made that decision?

+Black babe named Misa+ asked:


like some teens can take care of a child. and generalized that just because one teen they have seen on tv as a bad figure, decides that all are..

like me personaly, if i was to have a baby right now, i wouldnot waste my 9 months of pain, and pregnancy just to give it away for adoption… id find the best wa i can to make it for the both of us =)

Bloom B asked:


Were u young in your 20s? did u think u could not afford a baby and wasn’t the right time ? and u didn’t wanna go through abortion so u choice adoption? are u glad u made that decision?