My Adopted Baby

peanuts asked:


i decided not to have an abortion.. i had a question previously.. and i been getting a few nice couples who would like to adopt my baby..

but i have my worries.. i do not want to my child out in a government adoption centre for fear he/she might not be even be given a proper family.

can someone accept a half white/half asian baby..

i also have a fear after committing to the couple.. i might be bonded with the child and decided raise my child..

what should i do ..
it was conceived from rape

there were thoughts of abortion but its been almost 16 weeks.

T-1000 asked:


To any woman out there, if you fell victm to rape and conceived would you…

1.Abort
2.Give the baby up for adoption
3.Keep it

catnip asked:


My friends and I were talking about this one day.

The reason that some women give for having abortions is that they do not want to give up a baby for adoption, only to have them suddenly appear in their lives years later, without caring what this “blast from the past” will do to their present lives.

If a current (I guess as of the time of the child’s birth) health history of the birth giver is given, do you think the birth giver should have the right to have it said in the records that she wants no contact ever? What about in the case of rape? Should the birth giver be allowed to have it in the records that the child is a product of a rape, therefore she does not want the person coming back and digging up painful memories?