Comments on: What does the natural mother gain from adoption?

By: tish

tish — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 07:47:12 +0000

stretchmarks,
episotomy pain,
incontence,
depression
PTSD
substance abuse
belly “pooch” that doesn’t go away without cosmetic surgery,
engored breasts,
no birthday parties,
no first coos,
no juicy kisses,
no “ma ma.”
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hell, with all those “benefits” i think everyone should place for adoption. /sarcasm.

ps. a very small number of women are unable to parent. the rest have to be made to believe adoption is their only option. http://www.resumeminers.com/

By: Cool Hal

Cool Hal — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 00:00:01 +0000

Maybe - The only people who believe women are eager to give up their children are the ones who either have no experience of adoption of the thousands of childless couples who want to be live in a utopia that bio parents are all crackwhores and sluts rather than face up to the reality that many are bullied and coerced into giving their children up by companies that make money from it. http://www.fresh-coffee.com/coffee/organic-coffee.htm

By: Possum

Possum — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:52:41 +0000

PTSD & a broken heart. http://www.jewelrymakingidea.com/making-beaded-jewelry.htm

By: princess1984

princess1984 — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:40:57 +0000

I wasn’t “eager” to get rid of my babies. I was extremely difficult. In the long run it was the best decision for all. My babies had a home with two parents who could support them financially, and they have a daddy and a mommy, I was able to finish school and now I have a husband who loves me and a son of our own. I see then on occasion but it’s somewhat uncomfortable for me. They know who I am. In my mind,as hurtful as it was to do, it was a win win in every way. http://www.fishtrek.com/saltwater-fish-guide/bluefin-tuna.htm

By: snowwillow20

snowwillow20 — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 07:19:33 +0000

I didn’t gain anything, I went home empty handed and cry for 30 years. Who knew it would be so traumatic? Who knew they lied when they said, “you’ll get over it” “you can go on with your life” “You will forget”. Who knew that was bull?
Yes, she went to a nice family and I have nothing but respect for them. http://www.resumeminers.com/Job-Interview/Establishing-Rapport.htm

By: Freckle Face

Freckle Face — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 01:06:28 +0000

Dear Maybe,

Heartache and pain. http://www.goldbuyingguide.com/

By: AdoreHim

AdoreHim — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:41:02 +0000

I will say this- when I met the birth moms of our adopted parents- I can tell you I realized how hard it is for them to do what they did. I am adopted as well, so I love and respect my birth mom more since we have adopted. I hope some birth moms answer this question personally- but I can tell you this, if I had gotten pregnant and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I could not parent, the only option for me would be adoption. I am not saying this because of my experience with it, I am saying it because life is important. It is very hard for a birth mom to place, I am not denying that but I am saying that they will never remember taking the life of their child, if they could NOT raise at all. http://www.batterybackupguide.com/ups-battery-backup.htm

By: Lilac

Lilac — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 14:57:02 +0000

Not enough. That’s why this girl is keeping her baby! http://www.myislandholiday.com/oak-island-nc-vacation-rental.htm

By: Temperance

Temperance — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:44:11 +0000

She gains “freedom” I was a child who was adopted. She dropped me off at a fire station that said “I am a party girl. Don’t have time for a kid. Not emotionally stable. Thanks for the freedom!”

Kids have nothing that they win. Just sadness. And plus adoptees try to hide it from their APs. I only cry if my mom won’t know about it. Like at school I cry with teachers. It is terrible.

People should take responsibility for their actions.

The only people this benefits are people that cannot have children, like my APs. So glad I have them.

She wins NOTHING!!! SHE IS NOTHING!

Hope I helped!

Temperance Celeste http://www.namingmybaby.com/popular-baby-name-2005.htm

By: Diana

Diana — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 04:39:32 +0000

People are quick to judge. I was too until I met the women that would change my life forever. My son’s birth mother. She gave me her baby in adoption. She told me her life story, her reasons for giving him up. She didn’t want to get rid of him like so many people think is the reason that children are put up for adoption. They want a good life for their children, a roof over their head, food on the table, clothes on their back, an education, a stable family. In an open adoption the birth mother decides who is going to be the parents of her child. I don’t think people should say that they are getting rid of their babies. Their reason for putting their child up for adoption should be respected. http://www.ihearclear.com/cheap-hearing-aids.htm