Where’s a good place to look to put my beautiful unborn baby up for adoption?
MeMyself&I asked:
I’m only about 4 1/2 weeks pregnant and am due December 19. I work for USPS and my job is just about to close. I still haven’t found another job yet. Things are tough, and I already have 2 beautiful babies. I really don’t think I’ll be able to support another child right now, as this certainly came as a surprise.
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I’m only about 4 1/2 weeks pregnant and am due December 19. I work for USPS and my job is just about to close. I still haven’t found another job yet. Things are tough, and I already have 2 beautiful babies. I really don’t think I’ll be able to support another child right now, as this certainly came as a surprise.
Where’s a good place to check into about adoption?
April 18th, 2010 at 11:06 am
if you have 2 kids then u can handle 1 more… and Tye your boobs.. when you will look at your 2 beautiful kids you will know that 1 is missing… you will always think about her/him… you will wanna know how he/her look… you will go through a lot of pain… valsiyna
April 20th, 2010 at 10:30 am
If you feel that you can not give the child everything you would like then do what you feel best. I disagee with the other poster. Yes you will always know that you have another child out there, but you will also know that you gave that child a better life than you were able to give. Don’t let anyone belittle you for your decisions. Do what is best for you and your other children. This doesnot make you a bad person, but makes you a loving mother to be able to think of giving this new child a life you can not provide. I can not say this is from experience, as I have 4 children and have never put any up for adoption but I do have many friends who have done the same as you are looking to do and they do not regret a thing. As far as where to look most of them knew families that wanted to adopt and when the baby was born just signed the baby over to them as they could not afford all the fees usually associated with adoption. This is actually what my boyfriend and I are thinking of doing as I had my tubes tied with my last marriage and now am in a relationship where we would love to have a child together. If you would just like someone to talk to email me. I can be a great listener. dannysbaby62202@aol.com
April 21st, 2010 at 2:34 am
Planned Parenthood is a good place to start. They offer so many different services including adoption referrals. Good luck! Aleandria
April 23rd, 2010 at 4:16 am
it sounds like you already love your baby and i think it will be incredibly hard for you to give it up for adoption, a third baby won’t make a huge impact on your finances tbh, my son arrived a year ago and i already had 2 children and i’m finding it a lot easier to cope than i thought. If you are really sure it’s what you want to do you should check out any adoption agency, they’ll talk you through the process, there are a hell of a lot of childless couples out there willing to adopt, and i’m glad you chose adoption instead of abortion but i hope you decide to keep your baby, but at the end of the day, it’s all about what you think is best for him. sarah
April 26th, 2010 at 8:26 am
Why is your job about to close? joshuajava
April 29th, 2010 at 9:00 am
i’m sure any adoption agency would be happy to work with you.
but do think about this again. look into help from the government like wic or welfare or programs like that. when you have 2 already…i couldn’t imagine giving one up.
good luck to you. CB