Why do people kill there baby instead of giving the baby up for adoption?


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mandy asked:


If you don’t want the baby give it to me.

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17 Responses to “Why do people kill there baby instead of giving the baby up for adoption?”

  1. OMGiamgoingNUTS Says:
    February 17th, 2010 at 5:02 pm

    Some feel they have no other option. I know MANY people that would LOVE to adopt. And there’s many children out there to adopt. G’luck with this. OMGiamgoingNUTS

  2. I hate stupid ppl like you Says:
    February 20th, 2010 at 2:12 pm

    giving birth to a baby is a draining expierience emotionally and physically. Would you make a 14 year old girl raped by her step dad go through with the preg and then give the baby away? ppl who abort a fetus are not ready to have kids yet and its their decision. I agree with abortions. I think an abortion is a lot better than a crack head mom dumping the baby in a dumpster to die. I hate stupid ppl like you

  3. Mr. M. Says:
    February 24th, 2010 at 12:36 am

    I don’t like the idea of abortion, I realy hate the idea that some fat old MEN think they can decide what a women does with HER body, We all have suffer with our choices in life , Key word being OUR choices Mr. M.

  4. ca Says:
    February 26th, 2010 at 7:52 am

    BECAUSE THERE INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ca

  5. lvn4him Says:
    March 1st, 2010 at 12:36 pm

    people kill their baby because they are stupid they don’t even want to give a baby the chance to be loved lvn4him

  6. sunny Says:
    March 3rd, 2010 at 8:14 am

    Why do people try to troll for babies online?

    Hey, why not have your own?

    Just because I have a house, and you don’t doesn’t mean I have to give you mine. sunny

  7. hippiemommy Says:
    March 6th, 2010 at 2:05 am

    Mandy, I know that your question comes from a place of a great deal of pain.
    There are many reasons that some women choose to have an abortion and while you may not agree with their choice, sometimes they truly believe they are doing the best thing.
    Women who have abortions rather than give birth to drug addicted babies who have to suffer the withdrawl symptoms (screaming, cannot be touched, horrible pain and then many have life long lasting disabilities). Do you agree with that decision? No. But in their minds, they are doing the right thing, rather than cause, what they know, will be a life time of horror for that child.
    Women who are raped and cannot face carrying around a reminder of that for 9 months, only to give it up and be reminded their whole lives that there is a living being created in hate..
    Please understand that I am not saying that every abortion fits into this criteria, however, I am using this as an example to answer your question.
    I do know how hard it is to desperately want something and seeing others throwing exactly what you want away.
    I do hope that you find what you are looking for, either through adoption or biological means..
    Best of luck hippiemommy

  8. xbrokenheartxbrokenthoughts Says:
    March 7th, 2010 at 6:31 pm

    Okay, the main thing with going threw pregnancy and having the baby is you dont want to let it go… Emotionally when the child is born you are attached.. I had an abortion when I was 16, I was pregnant and didnt know when the doctor decided to give me the depo vera shot! I had to have an abortion or something could have been seriously wrong with my child. Now I am 20 and I am pregnant.. I am happy to have my baby now that I am more stable to take care of my child. BTW, the people with the rude comments about “making your own baby” some WOMAN cannot have their own! It’s not their fault, don’t be rude. xbrokenheartxbrokenthoughts

  9. jon a&z Says:
    March 7th, 2010 at 9:00 pm

    i am a muslim and i believe that abortion is wrong whether or not the person got raped
    i believe that god tests us and if u let the child live through your own pain u get the best reward of all heaven or some people think the baby is going to make them poor it justs hurts me from the inside jon a&z

  10. eve Says:
    March 7th, 2010 at 10:42 pm

    Many people don’t see abortion as killing, first of all. Secondly, many women do not want to be pregnant and do not want to carry the baby and then give it up. I have two children througha doption and I certainly am always very grateful that their mothers did not decide to have abortions instead of giving their children up for adoption but that was a choice that their mothers made and everyone is different and should be given the choice. eve

  11. if you want my advice.... Says:
    March 8th, 2010 at 9:45 am

    There are FEW medical reasons to have abortions I KNOW! Anyway, Mostly it’s a selfish reason. I don’t want to be know as a S*** or I don’t want to get fat or go through the pain.
    Fearing that your baby might be born sick is a selfish reason to have an abortion. “oh I he MAY be disabled and that may interupt MY life” RIGHT! My sons birth mom did drugs and drank and smoked and who knows what else while pregnant. She also knew how this child would interupt her life and decided that there would be someone who would and could love and care for him. She didn’t “put him out of his misery” And yes he has many problems but when we are out of this world and in heaven there is no sickness or illness and “R” doesn’t have his blood on her hands. I thank God everyday that she at least gave him a chance. To me he is PERFECT! if you want my advice….

  12. Adoptionissadnsick Says:
    March 9th, 2010 at 7:49 am

    Some believe that death is a kinder choice than forcing the baby into a life of pain and misery being raised by random strangers (some of whom may not even know the difference between their and there.) Adoptionissadnsick

  13. oremus_fratres Says:
    March 11th, 2010 at 11:51 am

    Usually because they are selfish to the point of murder. So sad… oremus_fratres

  14. LC Says:
    March 12th, 2010 at 12:37 pm

    Because they ignore the options that are available to them. They make selfish decisions that their own parents CHOSE not to make. LC

  15. DaniZ Says:
    March 13th, 2010 at 6:45 pm

    Women have abortions for many reasons. Not all are because they don’t want the baby. Many babies will die within minutes of birth, some mothers can die from some conditions, and sometimes a fetus can have horrible birth defects that would be painful, and the child would have a horrible life, if it were able to survive. You don’t have any idea what it’s like to be told that your child has a terrible disease and wont survive their birth, let along any time after birth. (I don’t either, but I do know many women who have been through exactly that)

    But even if a woman has an abortion for non medical reasons, it’s none of your business. If you want to adopt, go adopt, there are thousands of children in the United States of America alone that need to be adopted, not to mention in hundreds of other countries around the world. DaniZ

  16. whatchuknowboutdat Says:
    March 17th, 2010 at 2:09 am

    I’m not saying I’m all for this… but some people don’t believe in bringing children into this world when it’s already overcrowded. Orphanages are full… so many kids are living off of welfare… The government has a tough time already supporting the children that are already here. whatchuknowboutdat

  17. Juanita Says:
    May 20th, 2010 at 1:06 pm

    I would take a baby any day. If anyone out there has a baby for adoption or is pregnant and wants to give there baby a better life.

    Send me an email I will take care of all adoption related cost and make sure that what you want will be followed and put on all court documents.
    Good luck with your decision.

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